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Am I right to be suspicious?
Okay, last night I attended a party at my friend's house (I'll call him "Bill"). Anyways, Bill is very upset because one of his roomates (I'll call her "Jill") recently turned him down after Bill asked her out...Bill also invited one of his best friends over last night. (I'll call him Dan) Later on in the evening, Dan and I were kinda' flirting and he told me something about how he liked to be touched in a certain area (I'm very sorry, I know that's very innapropriate, but trust me, it matters later)...and after a while, he went downstairs to Jill's room...he was gone for a very very long time, so I went down to check on them...but before I got completely downstairs, I heard Dan telling Jill the SAME thing about how he likes to be touched. I was kind of startled and unsure of what to do, so I left them alone for maybe 10 or 15 minnutes...and when I secretly checked on them again, I CLEARLY heard Jill softly moaning...I didn't tell Bill, because I wasn't sure if my suspicions were correct...
I finally went and checked on them again, (this time I heard them just laughing and talking) so I went down to say "hi". Dan clearly saw my distress and confronted me about it. I asked him if he had done anything with her, but he completely denied it and even swore on my life that nothing happened...he said he was just talking with her and then someone on the phone. I asked him about the "I like to be touched here" comment, and he said he tells that to a lot of people. As for the "moaning", he said they were joking around, but all *I* heard was moaning (and not over emphasized moaning like they were joking) and nothing else...I'm just not sure what to think...
And what's worse is that Jill had allready started a relationship with someone else.
I realize I probably shouldn't have been snooping, but I look out for Bill like he's my brother...I'm completely aware that it may be a terrible misunderstanding, but I need a couple opinions...what do you think?
Thank you,
That Gothic Chick
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1) You don't know anything for sure, no matter how suspicious you are
2)Jill has no loyalty to Bill, she can mess with whoever she chooses. As for her other relationship- that is her business
3)Dan- not the most stand-up guy but that is his business
4)Bill- he is a big boy and can take care of himself emotionally
Overall, I don't see how it is your place to do or say anything, unless your opinion is asked.
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If you are really good friends with "Bill" then you need to let him know even if you are totally wrong you don't need to give it chance for him to get hurt. Tell him you are not sure but you really wanted to let him know so he knows there is a chance you could be wrong. Just think of it in this way if someone else heard what you did but someone else was in your place and they didn't tell you but you found out wouldn't you feel kinda betrayed by your good friend treat him how you would like to be treated in this type of situation.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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