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My Mum posts my pics
Hi. I'm Kaylee and I'm just turned 18.
My problem is my Mom, Emmy, who posts my pictures all over the internet. Mom cybers with men from all over the world. Its sort of her hobby and she meets some of them too. But she has started posting pictures of me and my sister and they have fallen into the wrong hands. People are seeing me in my new black dress and making comments.
If I tell Mom not to post my pics she tells me to mind my own business because these people are her friends. But I dont like them.
What would YOU do to stop Mom posting your pics in your new black dress. If you had one. A dress, not a Mom?
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this is a huge deal even though you may not realize this!! this is very very dangerous, and i dont mean to judge your mom but she is making a HUGE STUPID mistake. this is putting your life in danger, and you need to tell someone (AN ADULT) other than your mom asap. This is like myspace sistuations: people can track youu down and abduct you or worse.. i am very serious please be smart and do the right thing tell someone right away.. even a cop because this is a big big deal. if you dont follow this advice ,, your life could change for the worse (no im not threatening you sorry if it sounds that way but im not at all!!) please,please listen when i said that because i feel for you.. trust me on this one! you HAVE to find adult help immediately
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Calling social services might be a good start.
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Keep your pictures out of her hands if you can, and if she tries to take pictures of you cover your face. You really need to tell a relative or someone you trust...that's really wrong of your mom to do that, and something needs to be done.
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Well firstly maybe you should tell her you doon't want a picture taken...that way she kinda can't send them.
And 2ndly tell an adult u trust that won't tell her. Explain to them and ask for advice. You need someone that knows why she's doing this.
And I think you should tell her that you really don't like her doing this to you and ask her to kindly stop it because it's ruining your life.
I know I proobably didn't help much but I'm srry aboout ur situation
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Once they're posted, you can't get them back so start by not allowing her to photograph you any more, then take all pictures that she has of you away (on the computer- delete the files, also in a digital comera of hers and remove any negatives or printed pictures, do not tell her that you are doing this- it is very important to get them all away before she can do anything about it. You mother is exploiting you, whether she realizes it or not. You have a good bit of control in this situation to not allow it to go any further so take action now. Don't let her guilt trip you into giving in, if she can't respect your wishes then she gets no more photo's of you, period. I happen to agree with you, it's more then a little creepy that these potential perverts and strangers are viewing your photos without your permission, and unbelievably disturbing that your mother is advocating this.
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