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i am a nice friend but i like my best friend boy friend
hi im Tanisha and i need help i like my best friend boy friend i know thats wrong but i liked him first . i really dont want him to know cause i know he might say i dont like you , but i look better then my friend and i know its not always about the looks and stuff like that but i want him for my self and im scared to tell my friend how i feel or tell him . i never did this stuff like this and i know if i tell her that i like her boy friend (kyle) she would start crying so what should i do
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Tough shit, thats all I can say. Too bad if you liked him first, you had your chance to make your move but you didn't. Now because of your selfish feelings you are willing to ruin the happiness of two people, one of which is your best friend!! You have no right to call her that if that's what you are willing to do to her and I think its horrible that you believe just because you are prettier than her, you deserve him more. You are an awful person if you break them up and believe me it will come back to haunt you.
Keep this to yourself and find someone else. You have to, for your friend's sake. I'm sorry if I have been mean but my friend stole my bf and I have no sympathy for people like you.
Again really sorry
Sapphire Lily xxx
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I definitely knoq how that feels, well, sorta. I've had two similar situations. One was when I liked a guy but then he started liking my friend and they went out (still are going out). I said it was okay, but it still crushed me inside. Another time was when I got really close to my best friend and her boyfriend and I started liking him after they were already going out. Point? I know how you feel.
I would tell your friends omething like, "I don't want you to be mad and I don't want this to screw everybody's friendship up, but I liked *inserts name of guy in question* before you started going out so could you please try to refrain frm acting all coupley around me?" Only do this if you know it won't screw it up! Like when I liked my best friend's boyfriend I told her because I knew that if I said "Don't breakup. Don't let this come between us." She wouldn't. Asses your friendship to see if you can stand something like that. Most of all, don't let this guy come between you and your friend. FRIENDS BEFORE GUYS ALWAYS!
Next, try your best to get over him. I know you may think that you would look better with him or whatever, but he's your friend's. Focus on another guy (but don't jump into a relationshp there, either), your friends, school, a hobby, whatever. Tell yourself, every day, that he is not your type. Do whatever it takes to forget about him.
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You should, without a doubt, let her have him. I know you liked him first, but because she did't know that, and she's your friend, you risk ruining your friendship. It's a general honor rule that people stay away from their friend's b/gfriends. You really don't want to hurt her.
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