Does anyone know a good way to tell who your real friends are? because i have a feeling that alot of my "friends" are backstabbers. Is there a way i can find this out without being too obvious? thanks so much!
TheTeenGirl answered Monday May 15 2006, 3:34 am: A good way of telling whether someone backstabs a lot is how they talk about someone else to you. If you notice a friend of yours that talks a lot of trash about other people, then there is your answer for that one.
But don't try finding out too much about whether you are being talked about because you are being talked about and you have before. Everyone has backstabbed and everyone has been stabbed in the back by their own friends. The number one thing you should worry about is how they actually treat you as a friend and a person. For instance, if you are having a bad hair day or don't match in your clothes, they will still walk by you as a friend instead of acting scared of being seen with you.
It's also having the sense that they want to be around you. If you feel like you can't be yourself or have to be someone else around this friend just so they won't be annoyed of you, then that's also something you should be worried about.
BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Sunday May 14 2006, 5:30 pm: hey, there are many signs if a "friend" of yours isnt a good one. here are some thigns that you can do to test out your friensdhip. tell one ofteh grils that you think is a backstabber. make it be about one of YOUR DEPENDABLE FRIENDS. but the secret is oging to be fake. example say dylan is such an ugly slut. tell "dylan" or the friend ou choose and tell her to tell you if the backsabber told her. cait♥ [ BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ's advice column | Ask BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.