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Am I heartbroken?
Ok, heres the thing I dont really know what is wronge with me. so I thought maybe someone eles might. I use to LOVE men I could'nt stand to be single. But now I'm lonely and empty inside, and dont really want A man. It's like I just have no interst I a relashionship. I'm not even interested in meetting anyone or dating the guy's that ask me out. When normally I would be datting or hell even in a relashionship with this really hot guy that wants to take me out. I really like him but I just dont have interest in datting him.What is wronge with me? Am I in love with my ex BUDDY? My friends think so. They say he broke me bad. I miss him alot. But I never thought I was falling in love with him. Could I be, and just not have realized it. I still dont think I fell in love with him. But I miss him and if at anytime he was to come to me and say I'm sorry for what I did and want back what we had and more I want use to be togather. I would not even think about It would be a yes without thought. But I still don't think I'm in Love with him. But am I? And just not see it? Someone please tell me what is wronge with me... brakemenotagain_luv 22 female
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Only you know if you are in love with him. That has to be something that you decide fro yourself. You sure sound hung up on him, usually that means that there was a special connection between people. From an outsiders perspcetive,as long as he was good to you and not abusive, I would say you probably love him.
Keep in mind that love is strange because there are so many types and you might love him, but not feel a spark. You might not lust for him. Lust and love are not the same thing to me. Maybe you aren't meant to be romantically involved, or maybe you are putting to much pressure on yourself to feel the spark with him.
I say that let things happen naturally, and if you don't feel like dating anyone right now then you're obviously not ready.
I hope that I gave you enough food for thought. You need to figure this one out on your own, but think about what I wrote, maybe you'll get some insight o your feelings.
Good Luck!
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Nothing is wrong with you. You're just a confused girl, I think most of us have been where you are once or twice. Actually, it's excellent that you now can bear being single. I think that far too many women feel pressure to date just for the sake of it. True, dating is fun , but it is also hard work, if it is worth anything or if you want to get anywhere with it. This feeling "lonely and empty inside" is because you have feelings for your ex"buddy", yet at the same time realise that he isn't the one for you. Kudos to you, and you shouldn't rush yourself.
My advice to you is to give yourself time and space. If your ex gets back in touch, try , if it is humanly possible, to ignore him. Don't get back with him. He probably won't come begging anyway, that's just an all too common female fantasy. Heartbreakers do not come back on bended knees except in musical comedies which star Gene Kelly. As for whether or not you "fell in love" with him, who knows, love can be indefinable, and is all too easily confused with lust, lonliness or even simple dependence. You sound as if you're working through a lot. Be patient with yourself.
Take care, good luck,
Lucretia.
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Well first off lets get down to the bottom line. nothing wrong with you ! Mostly everyone i know had these problems atleast once in their life. Just because you dont want to date anyone else that doesnt nessisarily * mean that you were or are in love with your ex. You might not know why you are feeling this way but your body does. its like your body keeping a secret from your mind. Then truth is most likely you dont want to date no one else because you miss him , or mabe because he hurt you and your mind doesnt want you to move on. ya sure your probably lonely without a boyfriend , but its better than taking the risk of getting hurt. :] Dont think something is wrong with you just because you dont want to date other boys. if your ex doesnt come back to you then you have to move on. and if you choose not to have a boyfriend after that then thats up to you. but getting into other advise , you going back to him shouldnt be a option. because if you do and he goes back out with you then most likely you will end up getting hurt because you will like/love him more than he loves/likes you. :]
good luck ..:]
and i hoped i helped.
i didnt want to tell you my story but i am going through something similar
&&heart's;;kayla
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