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What is making me have problems...is it the fact...
So okay i guess you could say me and my friend are somewhat pretty except shes skinny and im a little more normal and maybe a little bit bigger but not big i dont think..it seems as though she gets all these guys andim not jelous im happy for her i just dont see why i cant..does it have to do with my weight?i dont think im fat at all but apparently not skinny to the eyes of guys...
so is it the fact im overweight, or mayb ejust not talkative becasue i am a shy person who i guess seems boring..i guess im just depressed cuz i always put myself down
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hey, i dont think its because of your weight. you ned more self confidence. when your arent self confident people sense it and that doesnt attract them. be talkative. join clubs or sports. cait♥
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Hi
Confidence is such a HUGE boost to a persons character.
Whether your overweight, shy, plain, or beautiful, if you have confidence, it will show and people can't help but be attracted to that.
Some guys are strictly attracted to one's appearance, but let's face it...do you want someone like that in your life? When someone can look past one's appearance and see that person for who they are, then that's the person you want in your life...and I guarantee you it will happen for you.
You're probably a very pretty, nice, smart girl, and the boy who captures your heart will be a lucky soul.
In the meantime, try to show more confidence in yourself..you will notice a difference...even if it's just in the way you feel about yourself.
Good luck.
Brenda
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hi,
dont put yourself down you are beautiful in your own right. remember guys take longer to mature than girls so give them time they will soon realise you have as much to offer as your friend. do one thing for me take a look in the mirror and say i love myself!! im beautiful, im intelligent and be confident guys love a confident person! get yourself a hobby you can have fun and get to meet new people. and remember to be careful when dating use protection !! i love me, i love me just keep saying it!!
email me if you have a burning question.
lisa x
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aw, well i dont think you should put yourself down, ever. some guys are weird and they like a girl for a certain reason other than her looks. like .. all the guys at my school go for the real tiny girls, and im not real tiny, and i dont get as many guys, and im talkative and fun too ! so it doesnt mean its my weight, and it doesnt mean your fat. it could possibly be that you are shy, and just dont go in the croud and be loud like some of the girls do, but you shouldnt change for guys .. be yourself, and eventually a guy will come along, it just hasnt been the right time for you. remember, guys arent everything! so dont stress yourself over them, it'll make things worse for you.
-Mel.
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