i have experience in a lot of fields of life so any questions welcome and i will answer them to the best of my ability
E-mail: lisamudd21@yahoo.co.uk
Gender: Female
Location: northern ireland,uk
Occupation: student, mother of 3
Age: 21
Member Since: April 20, 2006
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Last Update: April 25, 2006
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Hey Im making a CD to go with my friends birthday presents with a song by each of her fave bands, I listen to most of them but not Nirvana, can someone tell me the best Nirvana song in thier opinion....thanks xx (link)
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smells like teen spirit is the most popular one!!
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Ohkay so i really like this one guy and he asked me to prom i really like him but i dont want him to regret asking me or think im boring. I heard he liked me a little from his brother and so i was really happy..but he keeps flirting with these other girls who all have boyfriends..i judt dont understand i dont no how to get through to him and see if he likes me im not the best talker either i have these awkward silences and i dont no what to do...oh by the way im 15 and im a girl (link)
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hi,
guys love a confident girl so take a deep breath before you talk to him. if what his brother says is true then you should have no problem. hes just talking to other girls because he probably thinks you dont like him. take him somewere quite and tell him how you feel, tell him you like him and ask him how he feels. what have you got to loose you are only 15 plenty more guys to come. email me if you have any more questions.
lisa x
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okay so im going to prom in a month from tomorrow. i was wondering if theres any good websites with one of a kind dresses. doesnt nessessarily need to say PROM DRESS. dresses alone are fine. 5's for who can name a few.
thanks so much!
also.. no macy's godshalks etc..
random websites people wouldnt really come across =] (link)
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hi,
i would try e-bay if i was you try .com and co.uk there are people who sell one off dresses on it. hope i helped.
lisa x
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So okay i guess you could say me and my friend are somewhat pretty except shes skinny and im a little more normal and maybe a little bit bigger but not big i dont think..it seems as though she gets all these guys andim not jelous im happy for her i just dont see why i cant..does it have to do with my weight?i dont think im fat at all but apparently not skinny to the eyes of guys...
so is it the fact im overweight, or mayb ejust not talkative becasue i am a shy person who i guess seems boring..i guess im just depressed cuz i always put myself down (link)
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hi,
dont put yourself down you are beautiful in your own right. remember guys take longer to mature than girls so give them time they will soon realise you have as much to offer as your friend. do one thing for me take a look in the mirror and say i love myself!! im beautiful, im intelligent and be confident guys love a confident person! get yourself a hobby you can have fun and get to meet new people. and remember to be careful when dating use protection !! i love me, i love me just keep saying it!!
email me if you have a burning question.
lisa x
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im 13/f and ive been getting really close with this guy in my grade, like friend ship close. and hes been opening up to me and told me he cuts and i cut to. so weve been talking and im really afraid and i want to stop him from cutting but i dont know what to do.. any suggestions??
oo and theres another problem with this guy.. people have been telling me that we should go out because we talk on the phone for hours and we know each other inside and out, but hes hung up on this one girl like really really hung up on her but shes totally wrong for him and we both know that. is there any way i can help him get over her? (link)
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hi,
first of all i understand that cutting yourself is a way of releasing your mental pain by substituting it with pysical pain, but this is not the answer! there are so many other ways of dealing with your pain. you really need to talk to some one, go and see your doctor and ask him/her to refer you to a counsellor, and to give you phone numbers/adresses/websites of support groups. there are so many young people out there who think that this is a way out but its not. and i understand its like an addiction. if your friend cuts too then you should disscuss what makes both of you cut and try and find another way of dealing with it. cry, scream, smash plates, but please dont harm yourself concentrate on this problem first before you think about having a realtionship.
email me if you have anymore questions.
lisa x
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ok everyday i wake up about like 4:00 in the morning but after i go to sleep suddenly after like 10 to 20 minutes my whole body becomes paralized,i cant move i cant speak,can open my eyes i cant even open my mouth until like 10 seconds then it goes away!..this started once everytwo weeks then went on to once every other day now it happens everyday!...people say its stress but i dont know yes im going through alot more then any 14 yearold can ever imagine other people should thank the Lord they dont go through what i go through...but i dont know what it is its killing me i learned how to beat it now i just have to take control over my body again but its scary i dont even like goin to bed anymore! please help me!! (link)
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hi,
first of all have you been to see a doctor, you sound like you are having anxity or panic attack. what i would sugesst is some simple breathing exercises. when you feel it happening try and take 10 deep breaths. if you are under alot of stress you need to talk to someone, talking about things really does help and may be able to stop these attacks. dont be afraid alot of pepole go through this, its just your bodys way of coping. go and see your doctor and see what he/she recommends. ask for a list of support groups. tell your doctor what stressful things are going on in your life, thats what they are there for it their job to help people, and not just people who are in pysical pain.
go to bed get sleep have a nice hot bath before you go to bed and that might also help. try and clear your mind before you go to bed think of a clear blue sky and nothing else.
hope i helped email me if you have anymore questions.
lisa x.
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Me and my boyfriend has sex for the first time yesterday and a few things went wrong.. It was both our first times so we wern't exactly sure what to expect, when he first pushed inside me I experienced a bit of of pain which felt like pressure which I expect is normal as it would have been stretching me out? But then when we tried to get into a rhythmic motion there was no "good feeling" it felt like I was being prodded for a while but eventually just felt.. nothing really.. perhaps we didn't give it long enough for a 'good feeling' to kick in or could nerves/anxieties have played a part? we were in missionary position so we switched so I was on top but again it made no difference, alot of times he kept falling out of me which he was embarassed about because he claims his penis is smaller then average size. But also another thing that was worrying was his penis kept hitting something inside me, as he pushed past/against it it felt like he was pushing against an eardrum? My first thought was cervix but he reckons he was pushing past it from the side, should I be worried about this or could it be possible he was hitting something such as my gspot from the wrong angle? Also I can't see how this could be my hymen as I would have broken that ages ago when I started using tampons.
Would really appreciate any feedback, we are both 17 and feel we need some clarification on what went wrong, thankyou in advance for your time. (link)
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hi,
your first time usually doesnt feel good, especially if neither of you is experienced, but like anything it will get better with time and practise. your boyfriend is just feeling insecure like any 17 year old male measuring up is a big thing, just assure him he is fine and there is nothing wrong with him. both of you need to explore your bodies and understand what you like , experiment with each other, see what floats your boat! foreplay before intercourse is the key and i dont just mean the fingers and the hands i mean kissing and touching it will make you feel a whole lot more relaxed and intimate. as for his penis hitting something it sounds like he was penetrating very deep it sounds like your pelvic floor but see a doctor just incase as im not 100% sure. hope it all goes well and contact me at lisamudd21@yahoo.co.uk if you want to ask me any more questions.
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well i have asked a question on how i can be more outgoing cause its affecting my ability to be able to make friends. well i try to be interesting but no one seems to like me. like i see people in the halls at school saying "want to come over my house" or "Want to go bike riding" no one ever asks me that, is it because i'm boring? what can i do to make people want me as their friend? and how can i keep friend? i am really desperate for help. :( i have like one kind of best friend and she never even asks me to do stuff! she doesnt even invite me to her parties! and please dont say "why dont you ask THEM" (link)
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hi,
first of all this girl who never asks you over is not your friend , if she asks other people over and not you. get out there get a hobby, join as many clubs and activities as you can you will soon have alot of friends. not to be a smarty pants or anything but people omit a chemical that other peopl can sense dont know the name but its what tells people you are a confident person, for other people to like you, you need to like yourself!! so take a look in the mirror and say i love myself!! there is nothing wrong with me!! say hi to everyone join in the conversation and you'll be on your way to freindship town!! if you need anymore help just email me@ lisamudd21@yahoo.co.uk
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