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does my boyfriend really love me
hi first of all my question is really in it's own way a hard one,first of all i just moved in with my boyfriend, but whenever i say i love you he will just smile and say thank you or just not say anything at all the reason why i moved in was because he needed help with rent and bills because he just lost his job he always says how pretty other girls are but rarely says i am pretty sometimes he will just play video games all day and ignor me,one day he had me go out at 2'30 in the morining to get ciggrettes (i live in new york city)by myself i somtimes feel that he is only using me for rent money.one day he actually said to me why can't i be as pretty as her(lindsay lohan).guys help what should i do
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Hi,
Well, I think that part of his acting like this is because af all he is going through. But, NOT that much. Personally, I think that that is pretty darn mean, and rude for him to say that to you! why can't i be as pretty as her(lindsay lohan) To be honest, I'm not that sure if he loves you or not. Most likely, if he is doing all of that to you, he probably doesn't love you. I am so so SO sorry to tell you that, but that is just my oppinion, and my thoughts. I think that you should maybe ask him if he still loves you. Maybe if you want to you can move out.
Hope I've been helpfull! =)
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Hunt yourself a new place and then pack your bags and leave.
With you paying his way he has no incentive to go hunt a job. Why should he when he can stay home and be lazy while you go to work.
Its not like he is struggling to pay rent while working a low paying job. He isn't "helping" at all. Top it off with him making rude comments...He has user written all over him.
Don't put up with it any longer! :)
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You poor thing!! What a horrible horrible man!!!
I'm sorry, I know that you care about him but you simply cannot stay with a man who blatantly uses you and treats you in this way.
If he truly cared about you, there would be no denying it but this man is making use of your time and money and he is taking advantage of your feelings towards him. You deserve a LOT better than a man who will put you in such danger because he can't be bothered to get off his lazy bum and buy his own cigarettes.
You won't like this but the best thing you can do is to move out. You need to do it for your sake as much as his because while he has you there, he has no incentive at all to go out and get another job. You leave and take your money with you and he will have to support himself or he'll be turned out of his home on his ear!
You deserve so much better than this guy so don't allow yourself to be the doormat he's made you into and get out and find a guy who will treat you with the love and respect every girl should get from a man who truly loves her.
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Well it sure doesn't sound like a very loving relationship, at least not on his end. The fact that he only asked you to move in for help is pretty sad. He should want you to live with him regardless of whether or not he has a job and how well he is doing. I feel you sweetie because I've been there as well. Is he actively seeking out a job? Doesn't sound like it if he's sitting on his butt playing video games. And a loving boyfriend would never say things to intentionally hurt your feelings or compare you to other women. It does seem like he is using you...And you deserve better than that. Be a good girlfriend to someone who DESERVES you. That might not click with you right away..Sometimes it takes time to come to these conclusions on your own. Everyone has to weed through the losers to find a good person. He's just another weed, forget about him.
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I am sorry to say, he is totally using you! If you love someone unconditionally, you never say things that will hurt their feelings and you think highly of them...(not wishing they looked like someone else). Please get away from him ASAP! Dont gove him the satisfaction of making one more rent payment. Let him grow up and learn how to act like a real man.
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