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I just wanna be happy again
hi people
well in the last couple of weeks i've been really unhappy! im a new kid in this school i really hate and i've been there for 1/2 years and i still have no friends even though i trie!! and i totally messed up with a guy i really like cause i've been kinda mean without thinking :-) and i have the feeling everybody hates me and im bad in school i got and f for physiks and math and my parents always jell at me AAHH and i think im really really fat and ugly! my mom always sais im not but she's just saying that cause she's my mom! so does any of you have any suggestions how i can become happy again? pleeaassee i'll rate 5 for good advice!
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Listen sweet Heart your going through the same path that i went through when i was in school you need to change your whole attitude please listen please i know what your doing you totally gave up and lost yourself. I was also over weight in high school and did the same thing.... your yrelling for atention right now your not getting the attentiuon you ned evidently listen turn your path around bring up your grades do better in school seriously you will make friends do your hairt get all pretty for school evry one is oretty no matter how big the day you decide to loose weight you can do it be a litle more nicer to the guys try not to push every one away...letr poepl get close to you your depressed and you need to bring yourself back to life..... i really hope this helps i know exacly what your going through listen if you want to you can email me
nellylova1489@aol.com
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The only way you'll be happy again is to stop trying so hard with your new school. Usually when people feel alone and left out, they start acting like another person to fit in. Which is being mean to people. If you become rude to try feeling like a person in your school, then of course you'll be unhappy. It would suck to not be yourself just because everyone doesn't want you to.
The first thing you should do is know that you truly are a great person and you may have plenty of dislikes about yourself but that doesn't mean that you aren't beautiful or are less of a person. People who have a lot of friends have a lot of confidence in themselves. They know that they deserve friends and that they are truly beautiful. I know you think it's hard to believe in yourself and it is, but start with the little things. If you make a good grade, congradulate yourself and be happy. Go home and tell your parents. Let yourself be proud of you. Then you just have to start building up. The key to making friends is talking to people. If someone tells a joke, laugh and tell them that was a really good joke even if it's not. It's not really lying, it's another way of saying, "I think you are a funny person and I want to be your frind"
Another key is complimenting people. If you see a girl wearing a shirt you really like, tell her it looks great on her and ask her wear she got it. Don't be afraid to compliment people, it can really make someone's day. Especially if it's someone who doesn't have a lot of friends either. If someone is rude for some reason when you try to be nice, don't respond to it. That is a sign that they are one of those people you shouldn't try being friends with. Don't take it harshly. You've got better things to worry about than someone who can't even have respect for you.
Another way of communicating is if you see a classmate struggling, ask them if they need help. Or if you are struggling, ask for help from someone you know who knows the material well. And after you help someone, say, "Ok, do you understand now? If you get stuck later, let me know I'm here to help" so they know that they have someone to come to when they can't seem to understand. Plus, you'll start feeling really good after you help. You'll know that you are a nice girl to hang around or talk with. You have to start out with little things to make good friendships. And remember, when you do start making a good friend, don't stop being nice and helpful. These are skills you'll need to use for the rest of your life.
-TheTeenGirl
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Try talking about your feeligns more, an believe your parents. Because what reason do they have to lie to you?
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