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Extremely confused about this...
Okay there's this kid James who goes to my school. I see him as a friend but all my friends thinks he likes me. The thing is, he's not exactly what you would call friendly. Sometimes he's just really mean to me when I don't even do anything. Like this morning, my friend pushed me through a door after gym class, and now all he does is say "go run into the door" and at the end of the day I just said "Hi" and he's like "F**k you." Whenever he, or anyone, does this I get all upset sorta. I'll go "Jeez why are you so frickin mean to me?! I've never even done anything to you and you're still as mean as heck to me" When I do THIS he laughs like he was joking to begin with just to see me upset. But other times he's really nice to me. It's really confusing me.
Does he like me or not??
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There are options.
1* He could be an only child, and not know how to treat other people with respect, especially girls.
2* He has anger problems, and takes it out on whoever's there. You being the person.
3* He doesn't actually like you, and does this on purpose.
4* He really does like you, but he doesn't want you to know because he's shy, so he acts mean to throw you off, and trick you.
5* Some days he likes you, some days he doesn't. He might be changing his mind a lot.
6* He could have bi polar disorder. Where, he could be totally nice one minute, and then a jerk the next. His moods could switch back & forth frequently, like you described.
7* He probably does like you, since your friends are telling you so, and since friends know a lot about you, they can sense these things way before you can. It's weird.
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hmm well to sart off this caight my eye cuz i ahvea friend named james too but besides the point, that sounds like a real jerk, well there could be few options for this right here.
#1 he could just be a real jerk and secretly want to get mad at youa nd not like you and want you to get away from him, oh does he have any sib,lings cuz usually kid s with no sibligns are like this they care less about otehr people and stuff, mostly
#2 he likes you but he doesn't want you to know, some days he likes you and some days he likes other girls, i hate when guys do this, i wish he would just stick with one girl, it can get pretty annnoying after a while. I know how you feel. If your firneds are telling you he likes you they are probbaly right because your friends know a lot about you and they defnitely know that someone likes you before you do
#3 Myabe he just does that because he was in a bad mooda nd he had to tkae it out on somone and your just the person that happnes to be there at the time, can you say anger managment?
there might be more options but hey im not einstetein here, hope you find out wether he lieks you or not, hope i helped
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yeah ok...i know someone like this..we'll call them andy...he used to be really nice and then yell all types of insults ten seconds later...people like this arent really good friends, they're usually just insecure about themselves and by insulting you they feel better about themselves. by being nice they get the feeling that they're good reliable friends. its kinda hard to stay away from them but just remind yourself that he's using you to boost himself...i'm 14/f too
hope it helps
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