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lost dreams My whole life I've been striving for a goal and working really hard in school, and ive been doing good. But lately, the last two years to be exact, ever since i changed schools, i have been doing worse, and I feel that all my hard work is lost because the last two most important years of my schooling have stunk. I feel like i lost my dream.
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What was your goal/ Why was it so important to you? Do you still believe in it?(maybe your goal's changed)
You may be feeling stress or disconnectedness because of your change in school. or it could be somthing else, like depression. You might want to go talk to your school's counselor if you can.
I know this is not what you think now, but it really is OK that you these 2 years haven't been helping your dream. Take some time off, do other things especially physical activities,and think of other extra-curricular activities. Youknow your dream, it will always be there, maybe you just need to go about a different way of getting there, or it may take a bit longer. It will still be there. (maybe your goal's changed)
But not if you are not alright. Not if you're tired or depressed, so take care of yourself first. ]
Talk about how you feel with someone you trust, and ask them to help you be more focused, and also keep your mind thinking, "Okay, I have to do this," Believe me, two years might seem like awhile but you always have enough time to get ahead if you keep your mind in the right direction. I know changing schools is hard, because I also changed schools two years ago. I've gotten used to it though and have made friends, so it's gotten easier. If you're just not understand something in your schoolwork which is making you a little behind in a subject, ask for help after school with one of your teachers. If it doesn't help, then get ask your parents if you can get a tutor and see what they say.
-mystical_breeze
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If youhave a bad year or two, get back in the game and keep trying! don't give up! there are always years when everything goes wrong but you learn from them. stick to your dreams! <3 ]
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