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thought he cared
ok so anyway, i was going out with this guy, and i thought he really cared about me, like everything was going good, and then we broke up cus it was a difficult time in my life and i didnt want a b/f, so we just cooled it and we started talking instantly after the break up and we gained a really close relationship, like a brother-sister one, and then everything in my life was going good and he loved me, and he proved it too, and it was so real,i could just tell that it was real, so anyway we started going out, and then he broke up with me because he said he liked us better as friends because we talked more. but then he started going out with this other girl, and i was reading some questions on here and i found one that he asked not to long before we went out, and it said that he really like this otehr girl and that she was the one for him and he thought he had liked me, and now i dont know what to do, because he could have been lying about ever loving me at all or he could of been telling the truth, but how can i make him see that i really love him, and that i want him back without sounding like some weirdo creep?...
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he sounds kinda like a jerk. He was killing some time with you waiting on the other girl, and/or got her interested in him because he was semi-with you.
You should tell him once and only once, very clearly that you care about him and hope he's always in your life. then walk away like a lady. It's the hardest part, but you said you down't want to be the wierdo creep... anything beyond telling him once will freak him out.
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he does care about you. but it sounds like another girl has come into the picture. if he picks her
then im sorry but you cant really break them up or anything.
you could tell him that you still love him if your
together or not. then go off and have some fun.
let him think that one over. if he decides he wants
you to then great if not then go find another guy.
if he likes another girl you cant dwell on him cause you'll be hurting yourself more. this happened to me
to. i feel your pain! but u might have to move on.
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well he said he did like yall as friends so he might still have feelings for you , i think maybe you should get that connection back with him and see if when you feel you can tell him. you have to paient though he'll come on his own but it doesnt hurt to add a little push
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guys can be really stupid sometimes, so definately don't take anything he did personally. sometimes guys feelings get mixed up & they think they're in love when they aren't ya know?? maybe he friends his gf attractive er something. yes, he could've been lying about it, but are you sure it was him that asked the question?? i think you should confront him about it. i mean, you don't want to be worrying about it & then regret not asking him. he might explain how he feels & then you can explain how you feel. if he seems mad, er doesn't feel like talking then that's when you should move on & juss start going out with other guys. you could be friends with him, i mean it won't be that bad, because you don't want to totally fall in love with someone that doesn't like you back. make sense?? juss talk to him about it & see what happens from there.
-hope that helped!♥
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