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she "owns" him
(it's long but important info.) ever since this guy moved here (we'll call him James) I've liked him so much. James is the only guy I've ever trusted and the only one I can be my 100% self in front of. We're like brother and sister and we never get mad at each other. He knows I've liked him and he's liked me at times, but James has had 2 serious girlfriend during the time I've known him, and the current one is over a year already. I told James I love him and he took it well, but was in an awkward position because hes deeply in love with his girlfriend, we'll call her Kayla. I originally was fine with him having a girlfriend and respected it and talked to Kayla when he would have people over his house. Kayla was nice to me too. But a couple days ago Kayla was at James's house and I was bored to I texted James (not knowing kayla was there) saying hey what are you doing? and he texted back I hate you. so I thought it was a joke and texted him haha funny. why? and hes like dont talk to me i HATE you. so this was suspicious so I went online and his away message said Kaylas here <3. so it cleared up and later he told me "Kayla texted me that but she was kidding. you know she doesnt like me to talk to other girls" I dont think she was kidding because today in gym she gave me a dirty look and whispered to her friend. She doesnt own him! I was closer with him before she ever was. What do I do to get James back as a friend. he doesnt even say hey in the hall to me when hes with her.
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well i truly would beat that girls ass. your right you and him were close first and its not right what she is doing. pull him aside and tell him how you feel. or call me one night nomatter if she is over there or not and when you call and shes over there and she has a problem beat her buns! thats what i would do. she doesnt deserve him.
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LOVE<333 kayla <-- LOL
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I think he is in love with both of you and it is causing him to choose an dhe doesnt know who to choose so he says things he doesnt mean. I have been in this situation. Two guys one was my boyfriend and the other a really close friend who said i love you to me. I didnt know what to say. It caused me to thin about who i really loved and i couldnt decide. the best thing is stay out of it becasue fi you get in between you will lose him forever. Ask he him if he will at least hear you out write him an email explaining how you feel. Tell you are not here to hurt him and you understand how he feels. If you keep trying you will get through to him. Do what is right.
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