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Breaking up with him...
I'm breaking up with my boyfriend. This is seriously going to be so hard for me to do because I completely adore this boy, but I can't see our relationship going anywhere because now I realize I can only see him as a friend. He's just not boyfriend material which sounds shallow but I don't think he's right for me or I'm right for him. I've been going out wiht him for a month an a half and he's been so sweet. Like, treating me like a princess but I just don't feel attracted to him anymore and I've given it time but everytime I see him, I wish he was just my friend and not my boyfriend. I'm going to break up with him soon. What should I say? What should I avoid saying?
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This might be very hard time that your going through and im sorry.I'm also happy that you don't want to lead him on and i think he'll really like that.It might be very hard but its good to know that your relationship isn't going anywhere and you see that.And it's not shallow when your saying that for the best reason possible.I think that you should just sit him down and tell him the holl truth tell him that your sorry but you don't see the relationship going anywhere.Tell him that it's not him it's just that you only want to be good friends with him.DON'T say that its not me it you i think thats the rudest thing you could ever say.Or DON'T tell him over the phone or instant mesiging that would make him feel like you don't want to ever see him or somthing just go to him and lay it down .
hopefully i help and if i didnt im sooo sorry and if you wnat to hear anything else i wnat to say about this terrible thing i would be so happy to help you .
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katie
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im taking a risk saying this my ex-gf sadi the same thing to me so i was in your bf's position i took it well but were still good friends i want to kill some 1 (not literally but kick his ass) but were still friends. Just say we dont fit together as bf & gf and tell him u still want to be friends
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Make sure you let him know that its NOTHING hes done. Reassure him that hes an amazing person and he will make some girl incredibly happy one day, and that you just dont think you are the right girl for him. Blame yourself if you have too but just make sure he doesnt blame himself or think he did everything wrong. Just tell him that you absolutely adore him and love him to death but you've come to realize that its just as a friend. Make sure you let him know you need him in your life and want to be extremely close to him as a friend.
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You need to tell him everything you just told us. You need to tell him that you really like him a lot, but you just dont think of him as a boyfriend, just more of a really good friend, now dont say the typical line of..."lets breakup, but lets be friends...." just sounds to steriotypical...You really just need to explain yourself..and he will take it hard, but that is expected but if he is understandable and a good person, he will come around to except you decision.
Good Luck!
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