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should i or not
i am a 17 year old male haveing problems with my x-girl frien she was really controlling like on new years i wanted to go to a party on new years and she did not want me to go { i think that she did not trust me } and we broke up well i am talking to her again and i do not know if i should go back out with her or not so can u help me plz
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Well, it really depends on what you want.
If you think back to all the time you spent with her, do you think that it was great and you would do it again or do you think it was nice but tainted by her jealousy and possessivenes?
My general rule of thumb where people like this is concerned, is to stay away, as possessive behaviour can get worse and turn into something far more unpleasent. However, if this was not something she made a habit of then perhaps she deserves another chance. Perhaps there was another reason she didn't want you to go to the party? If it was a lack of trust then it may not be worth starting the relationship back up, as a relationship without trust isn't worth having and will always end in tears.
So have a good think about her and decide how you feel. Unfortunately, I can't give you a direct answer but it may be a good idea to start with a friendship and see if you wish to get the relationship re-started when you really know what it is you want.
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I wouldnt go back out with her until you see that she has changed. When people are controlling and jealous in a relationship and if they dont have trust then you basically have nothing. Dont go back out with her until you se that she trusts you as a friend, and if shes able to do that then see if shes able to trust you as mroe by testing it, and if it still isnt there then break up with her and tell her you cant be with her until she can learn to trust, because it isnt fair to you.
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ok you need to tell her how you feel and tell her that you think she dosn't trust you and you want more her to trust you tell her that you trust her and you want her to trust you.
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