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i need them back
sorry if this is long but anyone who can help me , it would be greatly apprecaited. Alright so it all started out when his boy moved away. but he moved back this year around like julyish and everyone was like curious of what would happen when there family moved back. Like would the old "groups' go back would everhthing be the same. So i made a promise to my friend that i would never ditch her for him. So everything was going good. I liked him right away when he got back and more than a friend but i didnt start hanging out with him till haloween. And as i started hanging out with him , i drifted away from everyone else. My bestfriend and everyone. And now i kinda lost all my friends at church . Oh yea by the way this is at church. and i usually bring my friend so im not like the only girl but she's not always going to be able to come and i want all my old friends back. My friend is mad cause i broke a promise to her. It would be really awkard for me to just go back to them . WHAT DO I DO . i miss them all soo much!
ill rate 5 for any help.
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I totally know what you mean. I lost MY best friend to a dork. I don't know if you like-like him, as in a boyfriend, but you should break up with him and let it settle in with your friends. You shouldn't act like it never happened, but say you're sorry and say that you want to be friends again. Ask for mercy, if neccesary.(sorry, that's just my favorite word "mercy") And THEN do whatever it is you two do. If she says it'll take awhile, make her banana-strawberries smoothies. Everybody loves those. She'll see that you're entirely sorry. Plus, don't make promises that you can't keep, even if you think you can.
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Try and get together with them whenever you can, or with each of them individually (to make it seem more personal) and apologize for drifting away from them. Tell them why you drifted away from them (without sounding like your just making excuses). They will probably understand, and they've probably been in the same situation...
I hope it works out,
-----<>Maureen
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So basically, your friends are being retarded. They should not make you keep your promises to be friends with them.. Yeah I understand you still want to be friends with them, but just gradually hang out with them and stuff. Invite them to the mall or a movie to see with each other, just spend time with each of them, call the on the phone, talk to the on IM and stuff. Everyone will become close again, it just takes time.
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