Okay, yesterday I found out that if I don't get a siciatrist (sp?) to see me by next week, then I will have to live with somebody else. I mean that is totally impossible for me and I know that my mom wont let that happen. I have anxiety and if I have to leave her then I will just die! But I know she wont let that happen to me, so I'm not very worried. But my mom is having a nervous breakdown! She is just lying in her bed crying and she says that she is sick and she is like freezing, she has like 3 covers over her and she is still shivering.
I am just really upset for her, so does anyone have any ideas on something I can do to help her? Maybe make her feel better?
Thank you so much!
Additional info, added Tuesday February 7 2006, 3:53 pm: phyciatrist-I think that is how you spell it?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Little_silent_voices answered Wednesday February 8 2006, 10:14 pm: make some hot chocolate turn on a movie and just lay down with her.. tell her everything is ok hold her and tell her you love her! Hold her so your body heat goes on her and so she also knows you will always be by her side and her yours..
Tell her about how much you love her and everything she has done for you!
i think this will help her stop crying and make you feel better also.
karenR answered Tuesday February 7 2006, 4:51 pm: You have to try and see the psychiatrist as you were told to do.
I am assuming that social services or someone has said you have to get this done. If you don't do as they said, they can and will remove you from your home. They will not care if you find it impossible, and your mom will be unable to prevent its happening.
It sounds as if you mom needs more help than she is able to get at home. It could be they want you to live elsewhere (temporarily) so that your mom can get the help she needs. If she is feeling that she has to stay home for you, then she may not be getting that help.
Is there a relative you could call to help you? If there is then I think you should do it. If there isn't then take help any way you can get it.
The sooner mom gets help, the sooner you can be together again. If you have to leave for a while, you will not die. You will need to be strong and follow the rules so that you get back together again soon. That will not happen if you act up so, you will have to hang in there and not make things worse by rebelling. Remember that while you are away, mom is getting help and getting better.
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