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I am a little on the shy and reserved side. I am a nice person and have a big heart. My problem is that I have a really hard time finding a nice bf. It seems like all the nice guys are taken. I'm not and never have been into casuel sex and one night stands. I want to have a permanent partner. How can I find a nice guy? I'm nearing 30 and I really wish I could get married and start a family. But I need to find the right guy first! Does anyone have any suggestions?
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All the good ones are taken? Then start looking someplace new. Seriously, expand your horizens and start spending time doing new things, that's how you meet new people.
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Check out www.okcupid.com
It's the most thorough dating service I've found.
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yeah. ummm... you should try going out with some gf's and showing your face... i dont mean this in a bad way... but you should get out there. Meet new people. Plus it will let you spend time with some of your friends.
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I think the best way to meet a nice guy is to go to nice and quiet places... such as the library, the park, etc. No one ever meets a genuinely nice guy in a bar or a club. Or a family member can set you up with a friend. Don't be scared to take the risk of a blind date, you never know until you try.
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Hey,
There are plenty of nice guys out there. The thing is that most of the nice guys are too polite to bug someone they don't know! Mostly if you're in a bar, it's the jerks who come up and ask if you want a drink. Just generally, you've got to try and meet a lot of people if you want to find someone nice. Don't just stick to letting men introduce themselves to you.
A little brief, but I hope you get the gist.
-K
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I've answered this question several times recently, so I hope you don't mind if I give you a link to one of those answers rather than just copy and paste it all over again.
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Just in case the link doesn't work, here it is in a nutshell: I recommend dating sites. Preferably two: one for your favorite hobby or field of interest, and another more general one like Match.com.
If it worked for a shy guy like me, it can work for you. My wife seems pretty pleased with the results, too. And of course we're both really pleased with our little boy. Incidentally, we were both well over 30 when we met online.
Good luck!
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