So there's this boy and I used to be able to talk to him with no problem, but now that i like him i can't even say hi to him. our winter formal is coming up and i kinda want to ask him, but i don't have enough courage to do it. for christmas i gave him a card and he really liked it, but since then i can't even say the word hi to him. i really want to tell him i like him, but i'm afraid it'll be awkward. and should i make him something for valentines?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? ThatAdviceLady answered Sunday January 15 2006, 12:00 am: Dear I can't say hi,
I know what it feels like to go up to someone you really like but get freaked out and totally lose your nerve and run away. The thing out it is though, you will never know if you two could ever get together if you don't ask, even if that is by writing a special valentines, asking him to the winter formal, or just saying, "Hey, i've been wondering- would you like to go to a movie with me?" Imagine if he died tomorrow- and all of the regret you would feel because you were too scared to ask. You have to do it soon before it's too late and even if it doesn't work out you can finally get over the crush and go back to being friends. And if you can't find the nerve to talk to him- write him a note- seems a little impersonal but sometimes it helps. But make sure you write it, wait, read it over, and when you're sure- give it to him- no regrets.
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Xo_NeSmiiRa_Xo answered Saturday January 14 2006, 12:55 am: you like need to find a way to talk to him.. even if it means talkin about anything.. then like start gettin more serious conversationz yes i think you should get him something for valentinez day becuzz that might strengthen your FRIENDSHIP/RATIONSHIP and then like ask him if you kan hang out.. get to no him a little bit more.. and then tell him how you feel..
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madnlove answered Saturday January 14 2006, 12:28 am: you should never keep your feelings for someone bottled up. you never kno if he feels the same way unless you say something.. follow your heart and believe in yourself.. self confidence... practice talking to him.. like on a pillow or something.. that helps... and you should make him something for valentines day.. maybe even express your feelings for him.. and you can ask him out.. do it before someone else does!!!!! [ madnlove's advice column | Ask madnlove A Question ]
DrivenCrazy6 answered Friday January 13 2006, 10:27 pm: Listen gurl...you follow your heart! and if you think that he will make you happy, and if you feel that he is the one go for it@ dont let discourage get in your way...Take it from a person who is going through something like that right now! Hope everything turns out good..write to me about how it went, and if my advice worked for you or not. [ DrivenCrazy6's advice column | Ask DrivenCrazy6 A Question ]
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