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Hi, my anme is Ashley Cashdollar. I love to hang out with my friends and listen to music.. also like watchin movies and stuff like that. yeah..
Gender: Female
Location: south carolina
Occupation: student
Age: 14
Member Since: January 14, 2006
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ok so here's the deal. . . i really like this one girl (not so sure about vice versa) and we talk every day. . i mean all the time. . . and i wanted to ask her out this weekend. . it's just that i don't know what to say. . . i'm not good at that kind of stuff. . . advice on what to do with her would also be of great help. . . .i am in great need of help over this. . . i've known her for years and just started having feelings for her. . .i just need some help. . .

by the way, i'm 13, she's 14 (link)
well... i was in that situation too.. cept for with a guy... n e ways... u should tell her how you feel.. wheter through letter, song, poem, or just by saying it out loud.. ya never kno what could happen... GO FOR IT!!


So there's this boy and I used to be able to talk to him with no problem, but now that i like him i can't even say hi to him. our winter formal is coming up and i kinda want to ask him, but i don't have enough courage to do it. for christmas i gave him a card and he really liked it, but since then i can't even say the word hi to him. i really want to tell him i like him, but i'm afraid it'll be awkward. and should i make him something for valentines? (link)
you should never keep your feelings for someone bottled up. you never kno if he feels the same way unless you say something.. follow your heart and believe in yourself.. self confidence... practice talking to him.. like on a pillow or something.. that helps... and you should make him something for valentines day.. maybe even express your feelings for him.. and you can ask him out.. do it before someone else does!!!!!


Okay ive been with my 1st boyfriend for 11months n im 17. He was also the first that took my virginity and i just dont feel the same. Last night he was on me about nto saying i love you enough and i just cant. Im not happy i never want to hang out with him. Plus i like another guy and he told me he liked me and this guy was my first kiss. Plus my b/f now is very obcessive and talks about getting married and stuff.I want to end it but he'll cry and beg me not to. He hasnt done anything really wrong lately and it would be like out of no where if i did it. but this guy im talking to weve liked eachother for a long time. im just afraid b/c itll be weird without him b/c i call him at like 3 in the morning when im bored or cant sleep and it would be weird seeing him at school and not talking to him. Im just confused i feel like a horrible person for thinking about it...someone please give me advice about this and how i should go about doing it thanks (link)
it all boils down to who likes you, who you could see yourself with, and who you like the most.. who is always there for you when you need someone. in this situation all i can say is follow your heart and do what you think is right.. ( i kno that sounds corny)


If a friend is doing idiotic things that are endangering her health, how far must you go to stop them before it becomes "nagging"? Urge them to change their ways once? Twice? Get other friends and gang up on them? In the opinions of the great Advicenators, when do such actions go past the point of being helpful and instead become merely annoying and likely to irritate the person you're trying to help? (link)
If i were you, i would say " your my friend and everything but i really dont like what your doing. and until you can stop, i cant associate with you." yes, it may become annoying but at least your making sure it gets across.




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