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Im gay and I dont know how to tell my family. I overheard that my dad will kill someone in the family if he found out they were gay. I feel horrible. I know that my whole family would hate me. I already messed everything up with half of my friends. If any of my friends find out im gay no one will want to be near me. They'll hate me. Half of my friends already hate me from something a while ago. I feel horrible. I told one of my friends and they told me that they will always be my friend. I love her so much. I dont want to lose my friends. How do I tell them? (link)
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Listen. Your real friends are the ones who will always love you for who you are. Brake it down to them. If they are not willing to be friends with you anymore, forget them. You dont need people who dont like you because you are gay. You need the people who will always care for you no matter what. Like that girl. She must love you alot! Just incase this dont work for you, there is a show on channel 123 (Noggin) at 6:00 or at 6:30. Its called Degrassi and it is about issues that occur at times. There is a boy named Marco and he is also gay. He doesnt know what to do. Watch the show daily if you can and the episodes will combine up to helping you with your life and how to solve your problems. Write back to me to see if my advice have worked for you.-Hope everything turns out okay! :)
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I have 2 friends, Bailey and Lauren. Bailey is my best friend, and we literally do (or did) EVERYTHING together. We hung out so much that people began thinking we were sisters. If one of us is going somewhere, the other one is bound to follow. It was just a really strong relationship.
Then she started hanging out with Lauren. Lauren and me aren't really very close at all, in fact, the only reason we're friends is through Bailey. Deep inside I kind of dislike her, for personal reasons, mainly her attitude. But I get along with her for the sake of Bailey.
Anyways, Bailey and Lauren started hanging out a lot. And Bailey kind of forgot about me. Like, they would go over each other's houses everyday and not even invite me. Sometimes, when Bailey and I had plans, Lauren would whine and complain about us not inviting her and end up inviting herself over, yet, when they have plans, Lauren never mentions a word to me. Bailey's attitude sorta shifted to being like Lauren's, and it made me feel like I was losing a friend.
It really hurts going on the bus, too. Odd, isn't it? It's because ever since the beginning of the year, Bailey and I have ALWAYS sat together on the bus. We'd save it for each other and sit together. Just the other day, Bailey sat with me for about 2 minutes until Lauren was like, "SIT BY ME!!" So she just got up, while I was talking to her, and sat down with Lauren, and then they both started laughing.
Now, I don't know how strong their relationship is, but I know Lauren considers Bailey her best friend. And it makes me kind envious, you know? Bailey still calls me her best friend, but I always wonder if she's lying, just not to hurt my feelings. Because she's done that before, with another girl.
My mom and my friend said to just ignore her and she'll get annoyed with Lauren after a little bit (because she is already starting too) and come back to me. But I'm hesistant if that will work.
Usually I'm really very honest with Bailey. But how can I find the words to tell her how I feel? She'll just deny everything and laugh and ask me if I'm kidding, and say I'm her best friend of course. But I want a sincere and honest truth. Because I know our friendship is falling apart. (link)
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Based on what you are writing, you have a problem with Lauren. You should sit her down when Lauren isnt there and talk to her. Letting out the truth ids always helpfull. Now, do what your heart is telling you to do. If you think you are losing your best friend, talk to her. If you think its just a hang out, leave her, she'll come crawling back soon enough. Im going through it right now. I have so many problems right now, im desperate to find everything out. So do as i say, and write back to me telling me if my advice worked for you or not.
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So there's this boy and I used to be able to talk to him with no problem, but now that i like him i can't even say hi to him. our winter formal is coming up and i kinda want to ask him, but i don't have enough courage to do it. for christmas i gave him a card and he really liked it, but since then i can't even say the word hi to him. i really want to tell him i like him, but i'm afraid it'll be awkward. and should i make him something for valentines? (link)
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Listen gurl...you follow your heart! and if you think that he will make you happy, and if you feel that he is the one go for it@ dont let discourage get in your way...Take it from a person who is going through something like that right now! Hope everything turns out good..write to me about how it went, and if my advice worked for you or not.
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