I am so ashamed of my Dad! He is SOO Gross Acting! I want to have a friend over (Amber) for a mini sleepover but I am imbarrassed of him! He makes these Hawking Noises! (lol) and it is SOOO Gross! I Don't Know What She Would Think! He Is Fat and Ugly and I don't even like to be around him! So What Do I Do About This HUGE Problem!!?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? syireen answered Friday January 20 2006, 9:33 pm: All I'm going to say is he's your father and you need to learn to respect him and change your attitude. i cant believe you would say those rude, nasty things about him, so what if he does those things you say he does .that's not good enough reason to hate him. my god this generation of kids don't know the meaning of respecting your elders especially your parents. I donĂ¢??t think you should even care what your friends think. come on he's your father he raised you, he hasn't really done anything to you to justify your view on him. I've gone through so much with my own parents good and bad but i would never in million years say or even feel the things you just said about your father. my advice to you 'get your priorities straight'. [ syireen's advice column | Ask syireen A Question ]
Kristen03 answered Sunday December 4 2005, 7:25 pm: lol, wow. Maybe you should talk to your dad about the way he acts. Tell him you'd appreciate it if he'd not make those noises or do whatever it is he does to annoy or embaress you. Although it may make him upset, it should help your problem. As far as his looks go, there's nothing you can do with that..and you shouldn't be embaressed by that. Hope i helped. [ Kristen03's advice column | Ask Kristen03 A Question ]
TinkerbellsHelp answered Saturday December 3 2005, 3:16 pm: Well.. thats a little harsh. But.. I know what its like to have embarressing parents. You cant change them. They refuse to change. But you can maybe ask your dad (politely) to stay out of you and your friends way. Maybe talk to him about his "hawking noises" and ask him to not do that when you have company over.
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glamoourgangster answered Saturday December 3 2005, 6:40 am: well you can either talk to your mom and tell her that ur friends sleepin over and you dont want your dad acting like that and she can tell him OR you gonna have to tell him yourself.tell him you dont want ur friend thinkin hes gross.good luck [ glamoourgangster's advice column | Ask glamoourgangster A Question ]
Sporkster answered Friday December 2 2005, 10:15 pm: No matter how gross or sick or ugly you may consider your dad, he's your dad. You can't do anything to change that, so you might as well get used to it. =(
If it really worries you that much, ask him politely to try not to make "hawking" noises around your friend. Also hint that you would like for him to try to be polite around her.
But really, if your friend is really your friend, she'll understand. She won't freak out and not be your friend anymore just if your dad is weird. Don't worry.
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