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I like her friend
Well I'm in a pretty complicated situation. Me and my girlfriend broke up about a month and a half ago. We were in love with each other but because I was going through things and I took it out on her and she thought it was her fault so she broke up with me not wanting to hurt me anymore. Well over the course of this past month in a half I've tried to get back with her, but she said she just wasn't ready for a relationship. Well one drunken night (this friday) I IMed her friend (who I never talked to before) and started talking about my ex. She gave me advice and said I should give her room and not talk to her for a while and she might start to miss me and want me back. Well we started talking about other things and we talked yesterday and today and I started to get a little flirty with her. Now I've noticed that I'm starting to like her a little. Now I still feel the same way about my ex, but when I ask her if she still likes me she says she doesn't know. I'm not sure what I'd should do.
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♥ Well hun you cant wait around for your ex forever its her loss if she doesnt want you so go for the new girl I think you may need something new anyway.I mean if you're ex wont go back out with you you cant just dread over it and be all bummed out because of her so LIVE YOUR LIFE!! and if she comes around when you're going out with the other chick then I mean it just depends on how much you like the other chick. But to make it short..dont wait around for her..but dont like be all mean and bitter about it if she finds out explain to her that you couldnt just wait around for her.
xOxO--Janee`
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You pimp. just kidding. make a list of things you like about your ex and than another list of things you like about her friend and whichever one has more reasons you like them. i know its kind of tough. i know how that whole break up thing works i had the same probelm a few months ago. you just gotta follow your heart/gut feeling
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I would leave the friend alone if you want to even try getting your ex back. That's an explosive situation and will probably ruin any chance you have.
You mentioned that the breakup was because you were going through some things. Have you resolved the problem you were going through? I would resolve it first before attempting to get back with your ex. Otherwise the situation will just end up repeating itself.
Sit down with your ex and explain to her that it wasn't her fault. If you can, tell her what was going on to cause the problem and let her know that you have resolved it. Then, give her the time and space she needs to decide.
Good luck.
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