i need serious help! i went to a movie tonight...and he tried to make out millions of times and i tried..but i just didnt know what to do! ive always been told it will come naturally..but it didnt at all! and now he thinks im mad at him and he thinks theres something wrong with him...annnnd he keeps calling me prude. help me PLEASE! what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sizzlinmandolin answered Monday November 28 2005, 8:50 pm: That's pretty rude of him to say those things about you and feel that way about you when I'll bet he knows you're new at this. He needs to start being more understanding. You should talk to him about it and tell him that you're nervous or uncomfortable and that you want to kiss him, but you're afraid you won't do it right. The next time you're at the movies, just do it! Start by kissng him on the cheek maybe, then just do the same thing on his lips when he turns his face. Once you get started you'll be fine, but I agree, it doesn't come very naturally at first. It's going to be awkward, but after you've done it a few times, you'll get used to it and it will come naturally then. Good luck! [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
kailey answered Monday November 28 2005, 3:17 pm: It does come naturally, unless he was just attacking you with his tongue. Let him know that you weren't mad, just nervous & he needs to slow down a bit.
But that's only if you still want to kiss him. I would be wary of a guy who started calling me a prude because I wouldn't kiss him in a movie theater. [ kailey's advice column | Ask kailey A Question ]
2hot4u2005 answered Monday November 28 2005, 4:43 am: Well just tell him that your not mad at him you just need to move slowly.......kissing does come naturally but not as quick a some people would like it to,all you have to do is the next time you kiss him dont think about relax and let him do most of the work,kissing is like dancing. [ 2hot4u2005's advice column | Ask 2hot4u2005 A Question ]
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