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feeling gross
Alright. I was under the influance of drugs earlyer. I smoked some weed (I know its not good and I dont recomend anyone doing it) I hadnt done anything bad for about a month so i was like.. alright just one time for fun. Well I was with my friend and this guy. We went to his house and was chillen in her basement. Then we decided we would go someplace so my friend went upstairs to get in the car and it was just me and him down there.. He stopped me from going up the stairs and started makin out with me. I stopped cuase I new I was on stuff and wasnt thinking right. For some reason I feel really gross because I know what would have happend if i hadnt of stopped it! I dont know why but i feel like he should have known not to because I was under the influance of drugs and that I wasnt thinking clearly.. Is this wrong for me to feel gross and humiliated? What can I do?
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no its not wrong. of course you made a mistake, but he just wanted to take advatage of you. but its good you realized it was wrong
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OMG THATS THE SAME EXACT THING THAT HAPPEND TO ME!!
but i didnt stop it.
thats so weired!!!
I FEEL GROSS TO
HE WAS UGLY
but dont feel gross.
its his fault
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Are you sure that you are feeling gross and humiliated and not just a little freaked out?
I wouldn't have felt gross and humiliated if all you did was make out. But it's good for you to be a little scared.
Guys learn two magical things about drugs and alcohol that work out well for THEM;
1. When girls are under the influence, they don't put up much of a fight when guys make moves.
2. And guys get more confident and agressive under the influence.
If you're going to experiment with that - always be sure you are with people that you know you can trust completely. I think you were really lucky that this guy allowed you to stop.
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No it is not wrong to feel this way--he was wrong fort rying to take advantage of you and you stood up for yourself--you were strong and you did good--that is something to be proud of--you would have been more humiliated if you would of went further than you did --you should be proud of yourself--you go girl!!
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