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I have a friend that i like alot more than just friends, but the problem is, Ive told her about this and she ignores me most of the time. I just that, the least she could do is "i just want to be friends" or something, not just ignore me. Another thing is that her boyfriends[or exs, depends on the month] know about it and talk to me about it. Help me out please.
Josh
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Josh...you might try backing off a little.
You may become more attractive to her if you kind of ignore her for a while. She may then wonder what happened to you and start looking a little closer at you.
Might not too, but worth a shot at this point. If she doesn't, then look for someone who will.
Good luck :)
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Well, she obviously doesn't want to date you, so maybe you should find another girl to like. Continuing to go after her may just make things uncomfortable and you may lose her as a friend.
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If she ignores you, it means she doesn't really want to say much and she is uncomftrable. I know it sucks for her to ignore you, but when you talk to her in private just talk to her about it. Is it bad that her ex's talk to you about it? I mean, if they are being ignorant and rude to you then just tell them to shut up and that it's none of your buisness, but if they just talk to you in a supportive way then that's fine.
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well maybe you should trie to talk to her in private
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Well, if shes ignoring you then thats probably a good indication that she isn't interested, especially if shes on and off with a boyfriend it sounds like.
Just let her come to you instead this time, make her talk to you, you've done all that you could, so if shes interested, let her step up and say so. I'm not sure what you really want me to say about her boyfriends coming up and talking to you about it except if you don't like it, tell them that you can handle this on your own.
-TheTeenGirl
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