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"i love you"
The very first time my boyfriend and I said "I love you" to each other was about two weeks ago. He said it first. Now though, I always say it first. He never tells me he loves me unless I say it to him. So what's wrong? Does he regret saying it? Is he just shy? What can I do to make him say it first?
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being a psychology major in college, i recently studied personality types and relationships... him not telling you does NOT mean anything is wrong. it's completely normal. guys are different from girls. girls need to hear that they are loved every day all the time.. guys function differently. to guys, if they don't say something bad to you then they really do like you. i have been with my boyfriend for about a year and he still doesn't always tell me he loves me first... try mentioning to him that it means a lot to hear that he loves you. just don't be too pushy. most of all it's true that actions speak louder than words so if he's treating you great.. you'll know he loves you.
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you cant really do anything to make him say it first, its just a natural thing.
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if you want to know wait for him to say it to you
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Ask him why he doesn`t say it anymore.. thats really the only way you`ll find out why he doesn`t say it anymore.. It might be cuz he`s shy i was like that with my boyfriend i also got the most amazing feeling when he said it so it was hard for me to speak for a moment.. then eventually i got to the point i could speak and still feel that amazing feeling.. Don`t say it first when your bout to hang up on the phone or something first and see if he says it if he don`t then call him back and tell him you love him if you want.. but i`d ask him if he doesn`t mention or say it back to you.. ♥ Dez
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He's probably gotten used to you saying it first. The same thing happened to my bf and I. I loved him so much, but he always said it first. So once when he didn't I didn't even think about it. You don't have to think about it or say it for it to be there. If you stop saying it as a test, he may get upset and think that you don't love him. What you should do is talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. He probably doesn't even realize what's going on! I hope everything works out and good luck! :)
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well it also depends on how long uve been dating. if its like a motnh hold off maybe hes just shy. but if its been awhile ask him "do u think its to soon to say i love you. bc ypu barley say it back and i dont wanna make you feel smothered" and do not say it if you do not mean it. its way to powerful
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make him say it or tell him you wont put out! or perhaps play hangman and have i love you as the hangman word that could work or perhaps you shouldnt care and realise that he is a boy and boys are stupid
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Dont say it to him 1st a few times in just see if he will say it.....If he dont be like do u not love me *act like ur playing aroung* in he will be like of sorry i love you.....that is what happend to me in my boyfriend
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Well Hun I love you is a powerful word and has alot of meaning to it, when he thinks of "I love you" he may be thinking that it is powerful too. Also he may not even know what love is, but I'm sure he doesn't regret saying it to you and nothing is wrong, I come across this with my boyfriend also. :) DizzymizzLizzie8
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