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Ice cream or Boyfriend?
Okay I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend named, austin, and i havent seen him in 2 weeks, and i only see him like once a week and his parents are really stricked, so we never hang out! But one time i went to the mall and at the ice cream store [Haagen Daz] there was this boy that worked there and we made complete eye contact for at least a minute and i feel like [dont laugh] but it felt like Love at first sight, it might sound stupied, but its true and i thought he was gorgeous, and now whenever i go to the mall i always hope he is there and i never think about austin, and like then before i was going out with austin [ he asked me out on November 8th ] i was at this Corona Highschool football game [ i dont go to high school i just went to the games] and i was sitting with my good friends patrick, larry, matt and jen and then they kept spilling water everywhere and knowing me i forgot and i went to sit next to jen and i slipped and i fell on someone and when i went to look it was the ice cream guy, and i just melted cause he was so pretty! WE just looked at each other the whole game after that, and i dont know what i should do, cause ive never talked to him so should i talk to him or not or just forget about him but then i dont know what to do about Austin, i dont know if i like him anymore but if i hang out with him then ill like him but if i break up with him then it will just be plan weird and he'll hate me?
please help me..
- ashlye
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This sounds like you stole the plot of a stupid preteen romance movie, and turned it lame.
Nah, I think I'd rather have the mean asshole.
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I think that this 'love at first site' ice cream guy is a little bit of your imagination. I strongly advise you not to break up with Austin to get to this guy. I think that you'll realize it may not have been exactly what you thought and you'll regret it. I think you are having a little moment with seeing another guy that is attractive to you, and maybe it should stay that way. You never know with guys who look at you, or who just happen to be watching you in that moment of time. Don't talk about this with Austin until you make a decision to actually make a move on this ice cream guy, which you shouldn't, but if you do, break up with him before you go and flirt. I know for sure that you'd rather be broken up with than to have your boyfriend stare and flirt with another girl while you're both still together. In other words, treat others and you want to be treated, if you don't want to be cheated on, don't cheat.
-TheTeenGirl
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does austin ever flirt with you? or talk to you or call you or something? ( maybe let me know if you can?)
well maybe you can talk to austin and see if you still like him. flirt with him and see if he does it back, you know, stuff like that.
but it really seems like you like this ice cream guy and he seems to really like you. i think you should talk to him. (dont get mad when i say this) but maybe you should break up with austin. alot of couples break up bc they barely see eachother, it happens all the time. he wont hate you, just ask if you can still be friends. and if you do break up with him, maybe talk to him whenever you can or see him just to let him know you havnt forgot about him.
And for the ice cream guy, you said it was love at first site. I think thats soo great and i think you should flirt with him and im sure he will ask you out. If he doesnt do it right away ( like, by then end of the night or something) you ask him out. it seems like you really like this guy and i really think you should go for it.
if you break up with Austin, i dont think he will hate you. just try to keep talking to him.
you know?
good luck! hope i helped!
<< sorry so long >>
<3,
brunettecutie
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Well yeah, you might like him if you hang out with him, but you hardly do. And if your looking at a bunch of other girls like 'love at first sight' looks and everything, then I think you should break up with Austin. Cause it sounds to me like you don't want to be with him at all anymore and you should move on. Just explain to him that you don't have the feelings you used to have for him, and you just want to be friends, if he wants. He might hate you, he might not. If he is pissed off, just give him awhile to relax and try and talk to him. If he talks to you and everything, you guys could become friends again. But if he's still not talking obviously theres a slim chance. =/ So refering to your title..ice cream. And speaking of the ice cream guy, I'd def. talk to him. It sounds like you two could have something going for you two =] Def. talk to him the next time you see him and flirt a little =D I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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Wow, you should defenetlly talk to this guy. You seem like you would really like him once you got to know him. Whenever you see him just talk to him and flirt and see if you really like him. It's not really fair to Austin, but if you are loosing interest in him then break up with him. He won't hate you, but you guys could be friends. You also don't have to break up with him, but try to figure out what you really want. Get to know the other guy before doing anything else.
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