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OK well i have this friend and ive been friends with her since 6th grade ( im in 9th now ) she has these annpying little things about her that tick me off soo bad like her laugh is sooo freaking annoying.a lot of people make fun of her laugh ( it sounds like shes having about 3 asma attacks at once ) and she freaks out saying my laugh isnt annoying.well anyway she is also saying rude comments to me like your soo stupid or stop being a bitch and then shell tell me she is just kidding.is there anyway i can block her out of my mind because its getting the point where i wish i never met her
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she doesnt sound like a great friend. and if she gets annoying to you then shes not realli a friend well she is just not a great one. Try ignoring her 4 a while take a break from being friends. and then wen you start talking to her again if she still gets annoying then just make a new friend.
hope i helped i not very good at giving friend advise better on love advise srry i tryed.
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Meet someone else. If you find a g/f you will be spending so much time with her you wont even have time to talk to this girl with the annoying laugh. Or you could kindly tell her not to laugh around you. Sounds like my friend Pam. She had the most annoying laugh and i couldnt stand it. So i did things that occupied me so i didnt have to listen to her. I would tell i had to go or i didnt have time to talk to her.
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Can you control you laugh? I can't. I doubt anyone had any say before they were born about what kind of laugh they would like to have. (I also doubt that if they did, they would say.... "hmm...I want to laugh like a donkey being told a joke by a funnier donkey" or "I want to sound like I am having an asthma attack so people will find me annoying and ask questions about it.")Being annoyed at someone for the way that they laugh...is...well...stupid. If you were annoyed because she always interupts when you speak, or steals the guy you like, or has a strange obsession with ham, that would be acceptable.
It sounds like she may be displaying some passive agressiveness towards you (she probably picks up on the fact that you find her annoying) She may just feel the need to defend herself, since her laugh is something that she cannot control, and people feel the need to make fun of her for it.
If she is saying rude comments, then you should ask yourself...what did you say to warrant that response? If it is nothing, then call shenanigans on her. She also could be hyper sensitive to certain things and you are annoying the hell out of her (ha, that would be kind of funny, actually)
Some people are not meant to stay friends. If you guys are so different and not getting along, then maybe you should split up amicably.
P.S. If someone made fun of my laugh, I would call them a bitch too, I just wouldn't say I was joking...because I wouldn't be...those bithes!)
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my friend and i are like that... we met in 5th grade, at times we hate each other then we love each other were like sisters, and i mean i love her to death but sometimes i cant stand her, just try to ignore it when shes mean or sotmthing. in the end you'll just be closer, in the end me and her compliment each other... im guessing that you and her are almost complete opposites? or very close to the same? its one of those 2 extremes. just anywayz try to love her... and when that fails... stay away from her for awhile
-alex
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