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my evil step- sis.
ok... i have a step family that i live with. like i live with my mom and with my step dad and with 3 step sisters. i get along really well with all of them but the youngest one(jody) is a little younger than me. we get along pretty good infact we are pretty close.sometimes. but other times she gets mad at me for like the simpelist thngs. like if i were to just be like wow your ugly, and then say just kidding she would get mad at me. or something like that.but im older than her. shes not supposed to boss me around. but if i say something to her or talk back to her she tells her mom(which absolutely hates me)and then jody gets even madder at me. just help me please. im sick of getting bossed around of somebody younger than me. help!
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Jody might be jealous because she looks up to you and wishes she was older. She might be insecure with herself, and when you say things, even when you're joking around such as " you're ugly " it sticks with her. Some people take things EXTREMELY PERSONAL. You have to be careful. Try to refrain from saying things like that, and when she runs to her mom, its probably because she feels cared for when someone is sticking up for her. :)
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everytime she gets mad at you, just ignore her. shell eventually get over it, and the bossing around will stop.
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The best solution is just ignoring someone. The only boss of you are your parents. If you ignore Jody and don't listen to what she tells you I promise you it's going to piss her off and she'll eventually realize that she can't boss you around anymore and that she's going to try doing it to one of your other sisters now.
If anything you could always sit down and talk to your mom or step dad about it so they know what's going on. This way Jody can't go back and tell them that you're being mean when you're just trying to ignore the problem.
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well the truth is, all little siblings tell on the older ones because they think that they will be forgotten or lefted out and since you are her only step sister she feels that she can take out all her anger on you because you are the step sister to her. you just have to lay the rule down and dont be afraid of her mom because her mom cant do anything to you. you cant be soft or very goddy goody nice to her but show her that you are still there for her.
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Do you see them all the time or just on weekends? Wish I knew!
She probably looks up to you. If you see her only on weekends her time with you is limited. If you call her a name it probably upsets her because she probably is taking what you say seriously...even if you are just kidding.
She is probably close to her mom. When mom gets upset it probably makes things even worse...especially if mom doesn't like you.
Try being a little nice to her. She is the youngest and I'm sure her parents getting a divorce probably hit her pretty hard.
I think she is really trying to like you despite anything her mom may be telling her. Make it easy for her. :)
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