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Question Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 11:30 pm

my cousins nd their dad are racist! soo much! like its so mean and i hate when they make fun of people! its really upsetting. theyre a LOT older than me (senior in hs and 3rd year in college) but were SOOO CLOSE!!! like they live at home and whatever so yea. but what should i do? theyre like the best cousins everevereververvEVER besides that!

should i just get over it?


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Chewshi answered Sunday October 9 2005, 4:46 pm:
No! Did you know that most parents of different races warn their children of this type of person? I should know - I'm one of these children. You don't want your cousins and their father to be one of those people that are feared like this. If they're the best cousins ever, then they should understand when you tell them that they're going way too far. Just tell them that one color can never, ever make a rainbow - mention that without all of the other countries, America never would have existed and we would be thought of as Asian, which is not white. They should understand you completely if they're truly your cousins ;).

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the_billybob182 answered Sunday October 9 2005, 3:14 am:
lol join the club my family is just like that

but...what my family says is sorta the truth lol

but lookin at history, messin with a mans beleifs have started a lot of wars....

so i really don't think there's much you can do about it

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x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Sunday October 9 2005, 2:02 am:
Wow...talk abotu familiar my cousin and his parents are liek that too...so I'll tell you what I do...when my cousin sais something racist and his parents arent around..i'll tell him how mean it is and that he's an ass for saying it..but when my aunt or uncel sais somehting..i just suck it up..because you dont want to fight with them...i know like you wanna choke them when they say it lol..but it's just better to stay quiet! Well good luc and o ya i don't thik they're gonna change the way they feel towards whoever they'r eracist against so you're gonna have to deal with it lol! Hope i helped ♥ caitie

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deathwillcome answered Sunday October 9 2005, 1:19 am:
You should talk to them and tell them how you feel. It isn't fair to you or them if you don't tell them. They don't know that it bothers you so they don't stop when they are around you. If they are sooooo cool, the would stop if they knew. Usually people have reasons to be racist, if you talk to them, you can see their piont of view, and then you can understand a little better. I'm not saying it will be okay for you, but you will understand their thoughts. Other than that, I don't know. I hope I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice. Thanks.

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