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I have this guy friend, Michael. I think I like him as more than a friend, but idk. I just got in a fight with him, nd said something i shoodnt have. He said hed never talk to me again. And trust me, he can hold a grudge. Ive seen him do it. I know there is no way he could ever like me back. Guys dont really like me ... i dont have many guy friends. He was like my only one, now i lost him.
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apologize you ass off and wait a while than ask him out
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talk to him. even if he ignores you when you talk just pull him over privatley and say something like "listen, im sorry. i know i said some things i shouldnt have but i really want you to forgive me. your my best friend and i dont want to lose you. you dont have to forgive me now but i just would appriciate it if you would." good luck!
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Try to gain back his trust again. Apologize. Explain that you were mad and you didn't mean to let things just slip like that. Just try your best to talk to him in a civil manner, gain back that friendship.
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Okay, my guess is that you're in high school. If Michael was friends with you he must have liked you, even if it wasn't in the way that you would have wanted him to. My advice to you is to try to talk to him. Apologize to him. Tell him that you just wanted to let him know that you didn't mean what you said, you still want to be friends with him, and that you value his friendship. After that it's his move. Be friendly to him, but give him time to realize how good of a friend you were...basically time to start missing you. He might not be willing to actually say something to you when that time comes, but if you know him well enough, you will know when he is ready to start being friends with you again. I used to think that guys didn't like me either, but I realized after awhile that they really did. Guys mature slower than girls, and a lot of them can be kind of shallow at younger ages. I'm sure that you're an attractive individual with a great personality and that you will find someone, if not Michael, that you can be in a happy relationship with one day. I had my first relationship when I was 18 and I am with a really great guy now, so don't worry! Your day will come...and good luck making amends with Michael!
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