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friend...???
I am so confused as of what i should do. My friend ("best friend") is sooo annoying. She hardly hangs out with me anymore, shes too busy hanging out with the 2 popular kids in our class,,its so obvious to tell shes trying to be cool. the 2 popular kids were talking about celeberty poker and how they love it. and shes like OMG I LOVE CELEBRTY POKER! haha!" and this is so untrue cuz, 1. she doesnt no how to play it,,or at least i think. When i told her about my camp stories and how we played poker she was like YEAH UMM FUN.
2. her tv doesnt even work.
and yeah, stuff like that keeps happening and its really starting to get annoying, and i let it go everytime but im soo anoyed...what should i do? be friends with her, tell her i dont want to be friends, what? we have been best friends for 2 years and this stuff hasnt been much of a problem till this year. it happened like once a couple years ago, and sometimes last year, but its getting bad this year. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!
btw i rate 5's for good help, and non-stupid answers
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Well, I don't know her, but from your tint on things it sounds like this person is a bit of a fairweather friend, meaning she comes and goes like weather. But if she is in some respect considered your best friend you must have plaeced some sort of respect in her at one time or another. If you feel you are not comfortable enough to talk this out with her, then you may have to question the integrity of the bond you two share. One thing you could do if you don't feel comfortable talking it out is try to get in with her new crowd. Bring a couple of your buds to hang out with her and the new crew. See if you can find out what caused her to "leave" you. It may just be that she's insecure about herself and finding the right crowd, and in that case she would probably welcome you as a new addandem to her group. HOWEVER, if she shows any signs that she might have gotten the impression that she finds you were a needy friend or soemthing like that, then you need to find out if she really feels like that. See how she reacts if you invite her over to your house. I know this has been long but I hope it helped.
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Oh my God, can I just hang her for you?
Maybe not, but here's the deal, and I think you know, that your friend is one of those many girls that is willing to be fake and kiss the asses of the 'in crowd', or the future force of McDonalds employees, as I think most will turn out at the rate they're going these days, but anyway - TELLLL HEEERRRR. And also, dont ask us if you want to be friends with her - do YOU?
I say you talk to her about it, and if she doesn't care or is like 'ommg noo im not doing anything and yeah you're just jealous and overreacting', then I think its better if you stop talking to her and avoid the headache. I hate fake people, and I don't blame you for being annoyed. Point out to her how being fake could make her miserable and ask her if she values your friendship at all.
I think that after that you'll be able to make a decision.
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The same thing pretty much happend with me too. Tell her that you don't want to be friends with her anymore. If she asked why (which she probably will) tell her the truth, that she is been being really annoying and that she has changed just for people to like her. I think that would be the best thing to do. ♥ Hope I Helped.!
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I think that you should tell her how you feel. Also you could ask her why she's secluding you from everything and what happened to y'all's friendships. Then tell her how much you miss her and how much you want it to be like old times and like how it use to be. The reason why she might be doing this to you is because she's probably unsure of what group(stereotypes) she wants to be in. She might just not want to be one of thos people that isn't in the in crowd. Or give her some time. I hope this answer helps you. Good luck.-Advicegodesses2
P.S.Write Back and tell me how it went.
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try to get to know the popular kids she hangs aroud with if you do like them you hang around some other friends that you have that you dont get annoyed by and that listen to you . OMG I LOVE CELEBRTY POKER lol that waz funny i dont like popular people i make fun of them so i no how you fell. good luck
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Well if she's lying to these populars kids and shes leaving you after 2 years of friendship you dont need her anymore. She seems like a total fake. Make new friends or get closer with other ones. You know that carma will hit her and she'll end up with nothing but her self. When that time comes you can be friends with her to show how sincere you are and she might respect you more or you can dump because of how rude she was to you. Your choice. Hope i helped!
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