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Question Posted Wednesday March 10 2010, 8:19 pm

Is suicide the only way out? Please, no one word answers.

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thelaura answered Thursday March 11 2010, 6:08 pm:
It may seem like a quick end to lifes problems, but it's the most cowardly way.

Whatever problems you are facing, there is ALWAYS ways to try and solve them.

You are ALIVE, you never will be again. Enjoy it while you're here and when crap occurs, solve it and carry on living your life how you want to.
It sounds easy but EVERYONE has problems. Part of life is facing them and WINNING.

If you're having suicidal thoughts, I urge you to see a specialist.

You're not alone.

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bakahaido answered Thursday March 11 2010, 5:08 pm:
of course not. yeah suicide seems like the best way to avoid problems, but the victorious feeling once you got over that problem is much more worth it. plus there's nothing that can compare to life's little gifts. sit by a park and hear little children's laughter while they play, the soft breeze, the beautiful sunlight... if you commit suicide, all of these will be gone. dont worry about your problem. you'll find a way to get over it :)

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dixiechic97 answered Thursday March 11 2010, 4:14 pm:
no its not. ik people that have gone to the hospital just for thoughts of suicide. and they can keep you there with other kids as long as they want until you seem better. its not fun. there are many other ways. there are always ppl to tlk to. ik someone who used to cut and now what they do it they draw. it heelps them better or instead of cutting get body crayon it works and yur not hurting yourself or others. it doesnt matter what people say. your not alone. your not the only one asking this question. what makes me feel better is that noone else could last a day in mi shoes but i can because i try to stay strong

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pinkpearl219 answered Thursday March 11 2010, 12:07 am:
absolutly not. i am speaking from a next to er bedside, respirator and surrounding doctors view. there is always #s and hotlines that you can talk to and the person on the other side. hang in there sweetie

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illusionsaregrander answered Wednesday March 10 2010, 9:01 pm:
Suicide is NOT the only way out.

Suicide is a permanent solution to what is probably a temporary problem. Not to mention that you will hurt more people than you can even imagine if you choose that option.

I know that when you are in pain, you may not want to think about the pain of others. It may feel overwhelming to do so. But it is a real consequence of that choice. Losing someone to suicide is deeply painful. It makes you question everything you ever said or did to that person, sometimes for years. Do you want the people who love you to suffer that way? If you dont, then try something else first.

Talk to someone you think is intelligent enough to help direct you to someone who can really help you. (A counselor or a psychiatrist who may prescribe anti-depressants) Whatever you are going through right now, it will pass, or your feelings about it will change. Human beings are in a constant state of flux, both physically and emotionally.

Emotions and feelings tend to come like waves, with high points, and with low points. Some people go higher and lower than others. But generally, no matter how low the low, it will pass in time. I dont know how old you are, but often in adolescence or young adulthood, people do not have the experience of the passing of the lows, and they think it will be that way forever. It probably wont.

Reach out for help. Call a suicide hotline if it feels like no one in your personal life can help you. There are other ways out of that feeling of despair. Its just hard to see them when you are feeling so bad. Let someone else help you look for them.

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jeanine278972 answered Wednesday March 10 2010, 8:30 pm:
I'll be honest with you and say yes and no. Suicide may be the immediate end to your life but it is not the way out. If there is something troubling you that greatly then you need to seek help. Suicide is the end to it all and is completely unnecessary. People think that their life is so bad the only way to fix their problems is to kill themselves and that is the selfish way out. They don't think of those around them who will continue to suffer because they chose to take their own lives. Their family is left with the guilt of thinking they could have possibly prevented it if ... (fill in the blanks with what if questions)

Like I said, Suicide definitely is the ultimate way out. You will no longer exist on earth and depending on what you believe, will go on to whatever step is next.

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