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friends boyfriend
my friend has a boyfriend. he can be really nice. but this summer he did a lot of things with girls this summer [not sex or anything like that] but lots of stuff that he shouldn't have been doing. and my friend, was like "i'll never go out with that player". but of course he asked her out and she said yes. now they're always with eachother, that doesnt bother me. but what she doesnt realize is that he's a bad person. me and my other friends were talking about it and we were like "yeah she should break up with him." but i dont know what to say to her. if i said anything like that she would probably get really sensitive about it. and trust me, i'm not jealous at all. i could never date him. it's just annoying that she'd choose him over her best friends. and he is bad.. not the greatest grades, all that summer stuff, and everything else. in high school he'll go crazy. what can my friends and i do??
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Dear Friends Boyfriend,
If this girl really is your friend she will take your word seriously meaning she should trust you if you say that he is bad news. If she doesn't maybe you and her weren't meant to be friends. It is good that you care for her and you don't want her to get hurt but I think that she is doing this to herself. I do think that you shouldn't judge him by the grades he gets, you are being judgmental if you think he is stupid with the grades he recieves in school. Just talk to her and you and her might understand eachother. Good Luck!!
<3Alli
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just make shure that she knows you are worried about her. tell her that you just wish she would be more carefull, sence he does have a player history. you cant make your friends desisions for her, i mean, she can go out with annyone she feels like. but just let her know that you guys are afraid she will get hurt, and that you guys dont want to see that happen. maybe your veiw of him is rong. start hannging out with them and maby you will start to realize that he isnt as bad as you thought. well i hope i helped!
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It's really hard to watch your friend make a mistake, isn't it?
If she doesn't know what he got up to over the summer then you could certainly inform her. However, it's *her* decision who she dates not yours and she has to make up her own mind.
The best thing you and your friends can do is try and stay in touch and be there for her should she need you in the future.
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