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Grandma
My dad's mom is on the verge of dying. I really never met my grandma so I can't really feel sad about it. Today my dad got really mad and blew up at my sister and said "My mom is F*ckin dying! You hear me? She's gunna die!!!! I don't need any grief from you!!!" What should I do to make him feel better?
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I'm sorry that your family is going through this. If your dad asks you to do a chore, do it without complaint. Saying "I love you" would make him happy. The little things always help.
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I know it doesn't seem very fair for him to take out his sadness on your sister, but he's probably is overloaded with all sorts of feelings and the best thing you can do is try to stay of trouble. Don't try to be rebellious, do your chores and keep up with school. A
s to interacting with him, just take hints from him. If he secludes himself, give him space and if he's just openly sad, give him a hug or two and let him know you love him. Just keep in mind that this is a very difficult time for him and I'm sure you'll be okay.
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you have to understand that his mom is dying...what if your mom was dying?!?! would you want to be stressed out or pissed off..I dont think so...so just make it easy on him. Dont give him anything to stress out about, try not to get him mad and just be nice to him.
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Get pictures and make him a memory book of his mom! Something that he can keep forever that way he'll know how much you care!
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i think you should go give your dad a hug and tell him that you love him.that always seems to make a parent happy.and also it will make you feel better about yourself because you know that youve helped someone.
hope i was help
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your dad is going through a tough time..i know its going to be hard..but if i were in your situation i would give your dad space, offer a shoulder to cry on, and if he blows up like that i would let it go (i know it doesnt seem righ that hes taking his anger and sadness oout on you) but time will go by and he will be ok again..,its going to be rocky for him though for a bit...
-melissa
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Aw im really sorry about that. Well what I think you should do is get some photos of him growing up and pictures of his mom and make a photo album. With all the pictures of good times they had togther. And put all the photos in that seem like there having fun. And it will make him so happy just to remember stuff about his past, and that you care about him & his feelings. hope I helped <3
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