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should you still have sex with your ex??...if you have feelings for him still but arent sure if he has them for you
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this is just me..but no i wouldnt ..because things get complicated ...you might like him and he might not have thsoe same feelings..then you feel used and stuff. also, i would want sex to be with someone special who is crazy about me and who im crazy about.
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if i was you, i would make sure the fellings were really for you, casue i wouldnt want to walk around like im a chap whore, and walk around giving it to anyone who asks for it. so, basically what i am saying is like find out if he has feelings for you, so you dont look like an ass. but thats just me ..
-christina♥
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No. Why the fuck would you want to have sex with him if you dont know where you stand? Sex isn't a game.
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Uhm, NO! You guys split for a reason, it isn't healthy to do that, because if it's only sex, then pretty soon you'll start missing all the other aspects of your relationship, wich'll make the hurt worse once it's completely over, and when he gets a new serious gf, wich WILL happen, trust me.
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You can continue to have casual sex with your ex but as you mentioned, you still kindle feelings for him and that might turn ugly in a FWB (friends with benefits) relationship, meaning you already have an idea of what kind of person that person is and although the basic idea of this unattached sex, there's bound to be attachments involved. This will get complicated if the other person's not looking for attachments.
First of all, sex itself is filled with emotional issues and consequences. As you said you still have feelings for him, but you're unsure of whether or not he has feelings for you. Remember, continuing to have sex with your ex is damaging to your emotional health and it is NOT a way to get back together. Infact, it just puts everything on the wrong track. He's might be looking for an easy way to hook up and you're willing, you're hoping for a magic spell that makes him . Neither of you will reach your goals since your intenion will eventually emerge and you'll become frustrated if he doesn't want to continue in a relationship.
If you want to get back together with him, sex is not the way to do it. Remember that sex is not love, its a release of sexual energy. Since you still have feelings for him, you should talk to him, alone, not look to sex as the answer. He might also try to use your feelings against you. Otherwise theres many ways of coping with it and learning to let go. There's plenty of oppertunities out there to find a guy you love and he loves you back, and you'll learn you can have more than just "feelings" for him.
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uh..no..why would you want to waste that on someone your not 1.with and 2.inlove with..think about it..this is big not just some random thing..
michelle<|3
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Wow! no you definately shouldn't have sex with your ex. Especially if you two broke up for a reason. If you are having sex with him and you aren't sure he feels the way you do,it's because he is using you for that one reason. That could be the reason in the first place why you were together when you were dating.
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Well, it's really up to you.
If I were even sexually active, then I wouldn't. But, people have different perspectives. If he doesn't have feelings for you, then would he even have sex with you? Or would he just be using you for sex?
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