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my two best friends go out, and we have been having problems because first my guy friend (Kyle) well i liked him but then it ended up not working out between us. well my best friend (katrina) said she liked him and went after him and now they're going out. there has been so much drama between usd on top of that they ditched me today and lately she has been constantly lying to me. i've already tried talking to them. i don't know what else to do other than drop both friends. any suggestions??
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I find your question a little confusing- how'd you mean "they ditched you today"? Did you guys have plans and they blew you off or what? Anyway, the whole situation sounds awkward, as if they have slight guilt issues and are playing up because of them. I think that the best thing you can do is to search out new friends, and let your friendship with those two slide. Believe me, if they value you, they will try to resolve it.
On this latter point, a word of warning. If Kyle tries to go back out with you at any point DON'T DO IT. It wouldn't be worth the extra drama(which can seem like fun ,but isn.t really, just wearing). Neither of them are, ultimately, worth your friendship, perhaps especially not Katrina. Real best friends don't behave like that to each other. Best of wishes, lol lucretiaxx.
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I've had this happen to me plenty of times! When peoples relationships are new they are always caught up in eachother. If there is a lot of drama I suggest you walk away for a while, I mean If she has to lie to you about they're relationship it obviously won't last that long. I know this sounds a little harsh but it's the truth. Hope this helps. <3.
`Juliet
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ok..you make a valid attempt to get across to both kyle and katrina that
-you want the friendship to be restored
-you dont want drama or fighting
-you dont want lies or them ditching you
being ditched and lied to definately is not cool..maybe like hang out with them less for awhile an concentrate on other friends..when they are ready to be valid again, and maybe apologize, then maybe things can go back to normal
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