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I just started going out with this guy and it already seems like he's losing *some* interest in me. I think it's mainly because I'm not enthusiastic or flirty as he is. What are some things I can do to spice it up and show him I really do like him? (besides tickling.)
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Try having deeper conversations.Showing him how there you are for him.Watch what you guys do and learn cute little things that he likes.Just make him feel wanted and that you are there for him and he will feel more close to you and want to be even closer. best of luck!-KC
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Well to put a little spif in that spark you actually need things in common. If you stand (or sit) there like a wooden block while he's working his puppy love on you, then he might as well chat up the rest of us girls. What I suggest is to chat him up, to make sure you're on the same vibe. Obvious topics are music, and be sure to ask him if he's on any sports teams or let him know when your next game is. He must have seen something in you that made you stand out from the crowd if he chose you out of anyone else. To maintain that spark and to let loverboy know he's still got you on your toes try not so obvious signs such as putting your hand on top of his, which psychologically makes him rekindle those first fluttery feelings of a new crush, or sliding your hand under his, triggering his instincts to slap on a shining armour. When you say good bye to your sweety after a date variate your kiss to something different like lingering on his upper or bottom lip. Or if you're around friends, a manipulated hug will do, too. Press your hand onto his upper back when you're hugging him, releasing the happy hormones and linger on for a bit longer. Or when you're walking together wrap your arm around his abdomen, not his love handles, guys can get as self-concious as we do. Another less than subtle move is placing your hand on a body part that turns you on to him the most and compliment him. (this could be your favorite one of his polos too.) See? being fun and interesting and expressing your hot-for-him feelings don't have to be in the form of a suggestive joke or the oh-god-no PDA. Thought throwing in some suggestive comments or jokes that only you both are familiar with helps. Be enthusiastic just dont over do it. Soon you may find him blushing and at lost of words.
--Juicygirl
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alright so you want to spice things up...set up a romantic candle dinner..like maybe cook something or order in italian dinners..make it romantic. then flirt..get kissy kissy..all that good stuff
try and keep in mind that he wants you to be flirty and stuff..you dont have to be super flirty..but compliment him if hes lookin hot..if you like a body part like his back,butt,eyes, etc..look him in the eye whehn you talk..smile..hig him...all these little things will help..dont be afraid to open up and communicate/ be affectionate with him because thats part of being in a relationship
-meliss
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Keep your focus on him if you see another good looking guy don't bother to stare so he would see that you really like him,ask him about his social life,what are his interests, tell him what you like about him,and what really caught your attention about him.Express yourself to him and tell him about your social life as well and interesting moments in your life as well.That will make him want to get closer to you and start to have interest in you trust me.
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flirting tips coming right up! :)
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