i've been told told by my boyfriend and his causin that my friend some lies about me she says she didnt but they keep telling me she did i dont want to put them before her but i cant really trust her since she slept with my ex so what should i do who to believe
Lola answered Saturday March 27 2010, 4:52 pm: I think you shouldn't even call her your friend ever since she slept with your ex, i don't really know how your still friends, but clearly you shouldn't be, cause the person who can back stab you once and lie to you, can easily do it again.
So first of all, she's not your friend, and you shouldn't know her, and ofcourse yes you shouldn't trust her. And if she really is telling lies about you, then its only cause she's jealous of you or of the life you have, and if she has a chance to steal your new boyfriend, she will do it, so be careful of her, and make your distance.
Don't bother yourself thinking who to trust or not, cause you shouldn't believe any word that comes out of her mouth, so ofcourse you should trust your boyfriend and cousin, why do you even care what she says about you? Let her say whatever she wants, no one will believe her, at least not the ones who know you well and are the closest to you. And since your boyfriend and cousin are insisting that she is talking about you behind your back and is making lies ,then maybe the next time they hear her saying something like that, they should stand up for you and defend you and tell her to stop.
Other than that, just don't bother with her at all, and don't even confront her, cause all she wants is attention, and your giving her that, and as long as you are, she'll keep on hurting you and doing things intentionally to get your attention. So just get her out of your mind and don't bother at all with her, and eventually she'll give up and leave you alone.
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