Okay well im going into the 8th grade and last summer i had a huge crush on this guys.. lets just call him "Jermey" but the entire time i liked him he was so mean to me and always said bad things to me and then during the 7th grade we became best friends. He tells me everything and he truts me and he told me a lot that he liked me but i had finally stopped liking him. But then he told me that somedays he really really really liked me a lot and other days i was just his friend. Towards the end of the year i started to get boyfriend/girlfriend feelings for him again because we kissed a few times and he told me how much he liked me and if it werent summer he woul go out with me but now it is summer and ive only seen him like 3 times and i dont know if he still likes me the way he used but i still like him completly.. no questions about it. I know he's interested in other girls too now, but when he's around me i can tell that he really likes me a lot and only me even if he wont admit it. I saw him yesterday but we didnt talk.. we both seemed really nervous and im worried that he doesnt like me anymore but i dont want to ask him if he still likes me because that would kind of be cheesy.. Please Help!
Why would you fall for a scumbag like that? If he treats you like crap, have the dignity to treat him the same way. You shouldn't have to put up with that.
And then you became best friends, which is kind of crazy.. even if he says he wants to be with you, it doesn't exactly sound like it. He may kiss you and tell you he likes you.. but he sure doesn't act like it. If he really liked you, he'd want to see you and want to date you (ONLY you, not other girls). Summer or not. [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
x_tanlines_x answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 3:27 pm: Do somthing really fun together on a day you are both available. Maybe it will let you see if both of your feelings are the same torwards each other. If you said you were both nervous that day you saw him, then maybe he has the same feelings for you, and like you dosn't know how to let you know. You have to spend some time with him to really know if he wants you in the same way.
♥ Megan [ x_tanlines_x's advice column | Ask x_tanlines_x A Question ]
ncblondie answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 2:06 pm: Ask him on a date. In this day and age, there's nothing wrong with the woman taking the initiative. If he agrees to the date, then you know that he does have feelings for you still without having to ask him flat out. A question you might want to consider, why does he not want to date in the summer? [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
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