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neighborly problem...
ok, i have this continuing problem with my neighbor down my street, ok, background time... Me and this kid, lets just call him Mike, have been friends off again-on again for the better part of 10 years, but it never got this bad ever until the start of this summer. Ok, first of all (not meaning to brag here), i bench 245 and am considerably stronger than Mike, but he insists that he is better than me at everything, and thinks he owns every one, on top of he thinks he is like a human dictionary, trying to use big words that dont fit. Well, whenever i disagree with him, Mike AND my younger brother always decide that im being "cocky and arrogent" but thats the case with Mike, and lately it has gotten so bad that i have litteraly caught my fist in air from hitting his face. please tell me what to do, and plz dont tell me to talk it out with him, there is no talking with this kid.
thank you and i rate very high for real responses.
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How cocky and arrogent.
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let ur little brother hang out with him and get some friends with some actual backbone and know what the hell there talking about ur bro will think hes cool and you wont be waisting your time. hope i helped!
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I think I would just ignore the goon all together. You know he is an idiot, little brother is just siding with him to get you to go at him....don't give them the satisfaction. Ignore him.
For future reference....
My son is also a very strong and muscular guy. You may encounter in the future (if not already), people who are going to go at you just because you are.
You will also find that some of your friends will get VERY brave about mouthing off and picking fights with people when you are around...expecting you to back their foolishness up. Be prepared to handle it, okay? :)
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I don't think you should even be spending time worrying about this guy... it seems all he and your brother are out for is to simply annoy you. If i were i just wouldnt pay him any mind and just be like yeah whatever when he tries to get under your skin. Eventually if you neglect him enough he most likely will give up.
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This "Mike" kid sounds like he can be annoying. I've gone through a similar situation before. What you should do is stay away from him. If he gets to close simply yell and say I don't care to hang around with you anymore. You don't have to have a long conversation with him just get it over with. Also, you can try to challenge him to a 1 on 1 basketball game or some athletic event of some sort. Prove to him you are better by winning, after you win say I beat you fair and square, and then just walk away. No negotiations.
Peace Out
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Honestly, if he keeps this up, just stop all relations with him, because he is obviously not a good friend if he does this continuously.
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