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losing him
well, my cousin was just diagnosed with cancer, and he is 16. my mom said he will only live til his 20's and im not taking it very well. =\ anyone have any ideas on how i can take it better?? please !!!
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hey like every1 in my family is or was like diagnosed with cancer and i know its hard but just dont think about it and hang out with him as much as you can and you never know my grandpa was told her wasnt going to make it another month like a year ago hope i helped
Morgan
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just thing postive think that he is going to a better place
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awe im so sorry they said the same thing about my aunt they said she would only like for 2 more years and its been 4 years since they said that and they think there just getting rid of it with the teatments but were not forsure whats going to happen and but you sitwation is kinda diffrent just perpare for the worst and hope for the best hope i helped ♥
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my mom had breast cancer when i was 3 so i can somewhat relate to what your going through i dont know what kind of cancer hes got but id look it up online and see if theres anything you can do to help like a cause my mom had surgery and got better i dont know if thats an option for him but if it is be supportive he may get better. hope i helped!
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Dear Losing Him,
Im sorry to hear about your cuzin. You should spend every minute you have with him. i know you are gonna miss him and i know how you feel right now but you have to calm down. everthing will be ok.
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ok im really down but you just need to take a deep breath and think about the good things in life and just calm down
~~~~me
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try spending the time you have left with him call if talk to him hang out with him make the best out of this eaven tho it is sad ! <33 alyssa
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Im sorry to hear that. While hes still with us, spend as much time as you can with him. Make every moment grand :) After hes gone, remember he always watches over you, and always wants you to be happy. Take Care.
♥ Alli*
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I lost my dad at ten years of age, and it is pritty hard to lose a person that is close to you. I'm not saying that they are the same, yours is prbably a diferent relasionship, but you see, there are ways to get through things. I will try to help.
1.Tell your cousin how you feel. Ask him if he can helpp you through wile you are helpin him through.
2. Spend as much time as you can with him as posible, believe me, if you don't you will feel guilty and sad because of it.
3. Only talk about it if you really need to. Bringin it up will only make you reallize that you don't have much time. Maybe go to stay at his house for the last couple of months of his life. (Even though you don't know the egzact date of his death or sometin, you can still try to be with him as much as posible.
4. Just try to keep him happy. Help him do thins that you don't think that he would ever do in his life.(like skydivin, huntin, rocky mountntain climin, ect.)
5. talk to him about it and get to know what all of this means, and how long you might have with him. But try not to get too depressed.
AFTER DEATH
1.After he is... gone, don't morn all of the time. Remember that he wouldn't have wanted you to be all sad. Only remember all of the good and fun thins you did with him.
2. talk about it, if you don't you will have problems all of your life, trust me.
3. Last but not least, never be afraid to cry.
Courage is doing what you are afraid to do.
There can be no courage unless you are scared.
I hope I helped and remember, my inbox is always open. Only rate if you want to. You can email me at death_will_come@hotmail.com! Be fre to E-mail me anytime.
P.S.
Sorry this was so long!
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Just visit him a lot, cherish EVERY moment you have with him. And not all predictions are right. Someone told my grandpa he had 1 more year and he lived 17 more.
you never know
hope i helped!
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Learn everything you can about his cancer. Information can help to slow or cure the cancer.
And think of it this way: you will be able to spend time with him. It isn't sudden. That can be sad, yes, but you can make use of every second left.
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Aw! I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I've never lost anyone like that before. But my advice would be, just spend as much time as you can with him now. I know that knowing it makes it harder for you & knowing that he'll pass on at an early age... but I think knowing it is better than just all of a sudden, it happening. Thats when you regret things & feel worse. But like I said, spend lots of time with him. I hope everything turns out ok.
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