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sad boy wont go away!!! aahhh he is taking over my life!
this guy i recently broke up with wont leave me alone. he is making me feel really bad for him like saying without me he feels like there is no point to living. also he is constantly asking me out but i keep saying no. why wont this guy give up. someone please help me get this boy to leave me alone!!!
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Tell him nicely that you still think he's a great guy, but you don't like him like that. Assure him that there are other s out there for him. Also, trying going around in groups, especially with some of your guy friends. He'll be more intimidated and less likely to harass you if there are a lot of people around.
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When he asks you out and you tell him no, do you say it like you mean it?? You need to fiRmly make it CLEAR that you aRe simply NOT INTERESTED. Now, doing this as politely as possible, while still getting the message acRoss LOUD AND CLEAR, would be best. Just tell him you simply do not hold the same feelings he holds foR you, and because of this.. a Relationship between the two of you would be pointless. Tell him that it's simply setting the two of you up foR a miseRable Relationship and difficult heaRtache, because.. honestly... what's the point of being in a Relationship when both paRtneRs aRen't willing to give it theiR all, ya know???
And I know it may be haRd, but this boy's pRoblems aRe EXACTLY THAT: THIS BOY'S PROBLEMS -- NOT YOURS!! You shouldn't let him upset; he's obviously just trying to lay down the guilt tRip like an immatuRe ten yeaR old. Once he sees it has lost it's affect, he'll Realize theRe's no point in keeping up the shanigans!!!
Goodluck to you!! :D
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you need to seriously sit down wiht him or call him make sure hes not with his friends, and tell him straight up no bullshitting 'okay, we went out once and it wasent working for me, therefore, be happy just being my friend, no more, or, we cant be nothing- meaning you leave me alone.' if you dont beat around the bush, and get to the point, there should be no problem.
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You may just have to get nasty with him. It can be difficult to do if you aren't nasty by nature but I think its the only way hes gonna get the message. Sounds kind of dense. :)
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Cut off all contact with him right now!
He's desperate and he is trying to bully you into dating him agian which you should not do under any curcimstances.
If you have been clear with him that you no longer want to date him then it's time to stop talking to him and stop listening to him. You can't help him through this pain because you are the source of the pain and you shouldn't have to.
I know it sounds really harsh but neither of you will be happy untill you end this completely and it seems like he wont let you do that unless you stop talking to him all togeather.
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well I will try to my best ability to help..
A) get a new boyfriend..
B) tell him that You just want to be friends.. Your feelings kinda wore off and its hard for you to be friends with him when he wont let go and just relax...
C) try settin him up with one of yours friends
I hope I helped some
Love always Maddie
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