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well i like this girl alot and me and i care for her aloooottt and i guess she cares for me alot to but she has a bf sooooo...yeah (link)
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Well maybe your getting the way she says she cares about you mixed up with the way you like her. Liking someone and caring for some one can mean very different things. She cares for you a lot you say? Yet she has a boyfriend... so that probably meaning you mean a lot to her and she cares for you a shit load, but not in a 'liking' kind of way. But your lucky you have some one who cares for you, dont just throw it away bc she dusnt feel the same as you do, just wait and see how thngs go.
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Umm i keep trying to pierce my lip but it either wont stay in or it wont go in what should i do? i have done it like 7 times now (link)
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ok if youve done it like 7 times, today...then you need to just stop immediatly and wait till it heals to start over. Its better to have another person hold your lip in an up outward position and kind of stretch it out while the needle is still in it(( it will make it easier to put the jewlery in)). Make sure the needle is a gauged one... dont take forever, dont lett he needle sit in your lip for more than a couple mins. Then take the needle out by pulling away from you and slip the hoop in from the back inward as you pull the needle out. This is how i did it, and it worked :)
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my life is just screwed up right now with guys i fall to easily for them and then i just get hurt at the end how will you know when you have found the one? how could you trust guys when so many has hurt you in the past most of them try to sweet talk you but how do you know if what they are really saying is coming from their heart?
i need as much as advice you guys could give me ♥ (link)
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i can relate *PERFECTLY* Anywho, basically, dont trust any guy. Make them EARN your trust. Dont like meet a guy then the next day 'awww *in love*' no, thats a huge NO GO. Get to know him, kinda play hard to get, guys love the chase. Dont let them think your like always avalible and seem desprate cuz thats how you get used and abused sweetheart. Act as if you dont really need a guy, then thats when you'll find the one. If there even is a such thing.
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ok i wrote before about my mums friend and everything how he wanted me to stay at his house and stuff well now he said to my mum if only he was 20 years younger he would go out with me. My mum got very angry at him and shouted at him for saying this! To be honest with you i don't know what to think. He keeps telling my mum i am so lovely,he asks me to come to his house and stay there. He is in his 30s and i am 17! and recently he has been phoneing my mum more since he met me! is he a pedo? i don't know what to do i am becoming quite scared of him.please advice me. Thanx (link)
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hunny, seriously, this could lead to some fucked up shit. Stay as far away as possible. let him know your not interested. Talk to you mom too, let her know you appreciate the compliments but to an extent and she needs to let him know this. Your 17, hes in his 30's! any guy in his 30's fuckin around with a 17 year old is freakishly wierd to me.
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well theres a girl i like and i dont think she likes me anymore cus all the shit she heres and i really like her ..it seems like shes blowin me of but when i do talk to her shes cool as hell idk wat to do (link)
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Well, maybe shes just not the one to talk unless its in person, or maybe you just need to forget about her bc she listens to every bad thing. Some people do have trust issues tho, and if youve lied to her or something that could become a HUGE factor. Just try to keep the communication line open and make sure she knows you care for her, bc if shes cool as hell, then dont give up. Unless it gets to a rediculously high level of her blowin you just because of stuff she hears and dusnt talk to you about it.
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mm well hey i like this girl and we just met recently through some friends of mine. its been crazy what we've gone through and when i first met her i liked her and it just got stronger from there every time i saw her it was like it made my day... im dying inside because i dont think she has the same feelings for me as i do for her. what should i do can u help me?
thanks
kenny.....
I LOVE YOU!
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Basically, since you've only known her for a little while, get to know her more, take it slow, make sure you REALLY like her. Is it really a good thing to like her? Could it end up ruinning a great friendship in the end? Just hang out wiht her and honestly get to know her personality, and see if it would be better friends or more.
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I feel kinda dumb writing this to you but i wanted to see if you could help me. Basically there's this guy i've been talking to for a couple weeks. I've known him for awhile and we just hung out recently after a long time. We talk all the time and he just seems not perfect but the closest you can get to it. I really like him and he says he likes me a lot too. But im afraid that he might be some what of a flirt. He deffinately has a lot of girl friends and he has lots of pictures of girls and talks to alot of them and girls who say somewhat the same thing to him that i do. and it seems everytime i meet another girl friend of his she says hes always with girls. i think he's for real and i can trust him..im just not sure. What do you think i should do, keep seeing where our relationship goes or just give up? Im just afraid if we do go out that he might hurt me in the end. Sorry its so long. Get back to me as soon as possible. -Your J. Rich. lol. (link)
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well my dearest j. rich:
YOU my dear are always with guys. lol. And your not doing n e thing? So why must it be different with him? Sooooo he has girlfriend? If the girlfriends are saying he cheats a lot and etc. then and only then will you have any need to concern. Basically, just see where your realationship goes. Like i always say, hun, and you know how i am, dont get to attatched until you know he is really feelin you and ONLY you.
i love yoooooooooooou!
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ok well im like the last person to be writing in one of these things so this might be kinda hard for me. But I really like this guy..and were going out. But I really dont want to do stuff with him. And he badly wants to. I feel bad telling him no I dont want to. But im wondering how I should bring it up that I really am not ready yet. I dont want him to get mad or anything. But thanks for listening. (link)
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OKAY SO! Obviously you know its not an infatuation, good. Those always lead to bad things. So you like him? And he likes you!..Dus that mean you need to do stuff with him? Noo...so unless you want to do stuff dont, and if he asked you out he liked you, so you should tell him- 'okay, babe, im not ready to take it to that level, and if you dont like it, you have two choices, break up wiht me or deal with it.' Take it as i always say, get straight to the point. Done.
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Ok, Here's the thing. I've been dating this guy for about 5 months. But recently, it seems like his ex-girlfriend is trying to force her way back into the relationship. Indirectly though. She'll post things online about him, but doesn't talk to him.. I think she's just hoping that maybe, since she knows how much he used to love her, he still reads her blogs.. and that he still feels the same way he used to. But another thing is, she completely broke his heart. And he almost killed himself because of it. But now that he has me, he says that I'm the greatest thing thats ever come into his life, and that he'll never do anything. He even says that he doesn't care about her anymore.. BUT. He still gets upset when he talks about her or when he thinks about the things that she did. But I don't understand. I can talk about my ex-boyfriend with no problem, even though he completely broke my heart and cheated on me, just like she did to him. I'm sorry this is so long. I just don't wanna lose him. I hate the thought of him not being in my life anymore. (link)
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Basically, i think you need to tell the ex whats up. Be calm about it, be rational and mature, but let her know she fucked up and now you and him have a very good thing going, and tell her if she has any decencey than she needs to back off, and make sure that shes trying to get him back before you go telling her that hes yours, because she might not be doing what you think she is. Plus, i wouldnt doubt that he still has a soft spot for this girl, but dont think he's still in love with her. You should also talk to him, tell him that if he still has feelings for her than to tell you, because in the end hes going to be doing what she did to him to you. and he obviously didnt love what she did to him to much so maybe he'll confess something or maybe you'll find out your just being paranoid. Lol, sorry that was so long, hope everything works out
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well i like this girl and i think she likes me but problems always get in the way and its hard to solve them...and ive been giving up all these other girls for her even tho i dont know its a sure thing but i want to show her some how that i can handle the situation..am i wrong for giving up all these other girls so i can make sure that this other girl is ok and that shel;l know im here for her if she needs me (link)
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Well, for one, if problems always occur with this girl, and most the time you cant handle it, its not your job to be putting your life on hold to see if this girl is stable enough to handle her shit. I think you both should just take a break, see other people and maybe try it again later. But for now, you should let her know your here for her, and if things start to calm down and you two learn/start to solve problems then you can try going out or sumthing.
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Cassie you are such a good advice giver. truely. you kno what to say or do any every situation.! but i am sure your not perfect, no one is. i didnt mean that in n e a mean way tho. well i love you bye! (link)
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thank you. no im not perfect. hahaha damn right im not
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ok well i like this girl but she is always around other guys and her best friends are guys and im afraid to tell her. What should i do? (link)
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Basically, im the type of girl that gets along with guys easier. Not because i like them or you know want to be a hot shot, its because i enjoy their company. And i;m almost postitive you have tons of girls that are friends, and i dont think it should really bother you that she has guy friend to the point where you cant tell her your feelings? So what she has guys as bestfriends? Would it REALLY be any different if they were guys? So basically i think you need to just gather up some balls and just let her know how you feel. She could be feelin the same about you, how will you know unless you take a chance?
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well theres this girl i like a lot and my ex gf is fuken everything up and lieing to her and making alot of my friends not like me anymore...this girl i like idk if she likes me but i know truly i wouldnt ever fuk her over cus im not like that...wat should i do (link)
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Basically, you just need to give the girl you like some space, but not too much. Show her that you care but not constantly remind her because typically that means you really dont. Talk to your ex girlfriend calmly and let her know shes giving you some problems and try to talk it out with her. But ex's are always crazy so i doubt that will work, but give it a try. Talk it out with the girl you like to, dont just tell her you wont fuck her over, but make it clear that you wouldnt, and then make sure you dont.
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The only reason i'm up now is because i can never fall asleep! if u help me with this i will give u a five!
i think this is urgent so please answer asap! (link)
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i have insomnia too, have ever since i can remember. Basically, your either really stressed, or its something physical. Try not eating past 10, or not drinking as much soda or coffee. Also, try drinking a warm glass of milk before bed. Sleeping pills are never the answer, you want to take a little amount of pills as possible ever. You can also try like writting poetry or in a diary about things your really stressin about or just have on your mind before you go to bed. It should help.
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Well, i am 14 and i kno this boy that i think likes me, but he also has like makeout buddies and had sex with another girl. i talk to him everynight. i dont kno what to think. help (link)
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Basically, this guy, seems like a horn dog. And i think, sicne your only 14, your still pretty young and you got tons of guys your gunna meet, dont waste your time on a guy who cant stick it with one girl, because he hasent matured yet. So just continue being his friends until he grows up a little and realizes that hes drivin all the good girls away because of his scandalious ways.
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ya so what did happend to you guys, you guys where like in love and then you seemed to stop talking. you know he always said you where the love of his life. so i just wanted to know what happend cause you guys where good together (link)
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we were. things change, people change. Ive realized that stuff happens that gets in the way. I think i know who your talking about, and i care for him with the utmost passion, but shit happens. Unforchanatly.
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why are you single? (link)
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i..dont know? lol
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what if you've done some things in your past that really arent good. and your girlfriend doesnt trust you at all.but you as a person have completely changed and love her with all your heart.
how do you gain that trust back?
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well if shes anything like me, its going to take a lot to gain her trust. You may not even gain it all back. Depending on how severe the things you did are, basically all you can do is show her, not just tell her you've changed. Ask her what you can do to get her trust back, and make sure you dont mess up again.
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what if your boyfriend is on his exgirlfriends myspace (link)
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So? What if he is? if it a pic of them kissing or some where along those lines, you got sumtin to be pist about. but what if you were on one of your ex boyfriends myspace's...what would you expect him to do? It could just be a innocent nothing. But keep yer eyes open, dont be oblivious to anything that might be going on.
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Cassssie.
i miss you.
a lot a lot. (link)
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well, first tell me yo name. Or pick up the phone and gimme a jingle :)
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