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Ok, Here's the thing. I've been dating this guy for about 5 months. But recently, it seems like his ex-girlfriend is trying to force her way back into the relationship. Indirectly though. She'll post things online about him, but doesn't talk to him.. I think she's just hoping that maybe, since she knows how much he used to love her, he still reads her blogs.. and that he still feels the same way he used to. But another thing is, she completely broke his heart. And he almost killed himself because of it. But now that he has me, he says that I'm the greatest thing thats ever come into his life, and that he'll never do anything. He even says that he doesn't care about her anymore.. BUT. He still gets upset when he talks about her or when he thinks about the things that she did. But I don't understand. I can talk about my ex-boyfriend with no problem, even though he completely broke my heart and cheated on me, just like she did to him. I'm sorry this is so long. I just don't wanna lose him. I hate the thought of him not being in my life anymore.
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Basically, i think you need to tell the ex whats up. Be calm about it, be rational and mature, but let her know she fucked up and now you and him have a very good thing going, and tell her if she has any decencey than she needs to back off, and make sure that shes trying to get him back before you go telling her that hes yours, because she might not be doing what you think she is. Plus, i wouldnt doubt that he still has a soft spot for this girl, but dont think he's still in love with her. You should also talk to him, tell him that if he still has feelings for her than to tell you, because in the end hes going to be doing what she did to him to you. and he obviously didnt love what she did to him to much so maybe he'll confess something or maybe you'll find out your just being paranoid. Lol, sorry that was so long, hope everything works out<3
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