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IM vs school Ok, so online when i'm talking to the guy i like, we get along really well and talk about aNyThInG, but in school we both like avoid eachother's eye contact and we only say "hi" once and a while in the halls. Any sudjestions?
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ok, if you like this guy you've gotta start talking to him in person or you wont get anywhere! go up to his locker and start a nice conversation or when you're online to get things spiced up do a little more flirting like some winks and what not;) haha hope that helped! please rate <33 ]
as far as suggestions, well. that happens a lot.
to me, even.
i think its cus ... in person you have to make sure its not awkward .. .and you dont have to look the person in the eye or even see their facial expression... and online you dont see any of that and they dont see you blush. or cry. or laugh. or anything... so its generally easier.
i would say to slowly just start at least saying hi to him ... and making small talk to start.. .and gradually things will get better. ]
One of you needs to make the attempt to talk in the real world! Maybe you could agree to meet and talk at school via IM. Once you do it the next time it will get easier. One of you just needs to break the ice. :) ]
Next time you're online, bring up the fact that you guys never talk at school. Just say, "Yea, we should hang out at school tomorrow, it'll be fun." Think of some things you guys can talk about, just incase its a fest of awkward silences. Good luck!
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errr i hate it.. girls always have to make the first move!! lol.. anywayy i say you need to talk to him more in the halls.. give him eyecontact and don't avoid his.. it's the only way your goign to get talking in school... you know? you two are being shy towards eachother so you need to step up and show him that you're not shy! then once he figures that out he will talk to you more etc. hope i helped... and best wishes
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