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I am going to miss my friend
Okay, for everyone or anyone who answers this, I really want a good answer. So here it goes.. My best best best friend is moving..because her divorsed parents are getting back together. and she seems fine with it. Our town (i dont want to sound posh about this one..) is a pretty rich town, homes go up to 1.1 million. and so her mom doesn't want to pay that kind of money for a house. Its so scary, because we are so close, I don't know what to do!
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best friends for n/ever?
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if you and your friend are close, then you dont have a lot to worry about. best friends means best friends forever. so even if you guys dont hang out as much, that doesnt mean you cant still keep in touch. make sure you talk to her about it. Like, "your my best friend, i dont want to lose you or get replaced." just keep her in your heart, and thats where she'll stay.
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it's gonna take a lot of time adjusting, because it's hard to just see your best friend move like that. you should spend as much time as possible with her before she leaves. maybe you two can make something for each other so that you can always think about each other. e-mail her and call her and stuff so that no matter what, you can still stay in touch. ask her to come visit you on holidays.
hope i helped!
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I know what you're going through. When I lived in California, I had to move cross country to Florida & leave my best friend in the whole world. It was hard & I knew that I would have a difficult time adjusting. It's natural to feel sad or worried about things changing. Changes are scary. I suggest spending as much time as possible with her. Also, try to plan something to celebrate the change. Make a vow to stay in touch & maybe even give eachother a little something so that you can think of eachother often. It's the little things that count. Good luck & if you ever need anymore help, feel free to let me know. ♥
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O.K...
Really, truly, and honestly, there is nothing you can DO about it. I was once in this situation, except I was the one MOVING. I do know that is she's happy, you should be happy FOR her. Sure, you're going to miss her and it's going to be hard butit's not the last time you're going to see her. If she's just in another town, you can drive down to see her when it's Christmas break. If she's in another state/country, you can buy a plane ticket/drive down there in the summer. That's what I do with my friend, Heather, that I moved away from in 2001. Get email addresses, have her call you and plan a vacation where you guys both get together. It's going to be hard but it's NOT the end of the world!
I'm sorry you have to go through this! I know how you feel!
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
~~~Kayla~~~
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aww i know what you mean. because i had to go through same thing. well not same but similar. we didnt live in same neighborhood but we were so close that we called each other SISTERS. then when we graduated middle school we had to be seperated because we were going to different high school. but we still kept in touch through the email and IMing each other and phone calls. and once in a while we got together and have fun..
also, i had this other friend. we were really really close, but she had to move to different country... (we never saw each other ) but we are still keeping in touch after 3 years and sending cards and gifts to each other.
and calls and all that...
and be happy for her parents and she will appriciate you for that.
and i hope this helped
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