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i told my boyfreind if he is not going to be there for this second child then get out i already have a two year old boy with him and my feeling for him have changed i care for him i am starting ti think i don't love him any more is that a normal thing to go through while you are pregnanat
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it is normal, while you're pregnant, you go through major mood swings, but if you truely feel that you don't love him anymore then like u said let him go, but talk to him to see if he's going to be there for this child, that will play a major factor in your decision. i wish you the best of luck! hope i helped
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Hormones are ragin when your pregnant. This is very common when your pregnant.
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You have a lot of different feelings when you are pregnant. Is he not treating you right? Is he acting like he isn't going to help? It is really hard to raise kids on your own. I did it, and a lot of women do. I also came from a home where my parents stayed together for 26 years. In the 18 yrs I was at home I don't remember my parents saying I love you or hugging or kissing. It's hard to grow up in a home with no affection. I'm also divorced. I didn't want my kids growing up in a house with no love. My ex and I agreed when we divorced that we would not fight in front of the kids or talk badly about each other in front of them. They have seen that mom is happy and dad is happy, but mom and dad weren't happy together. Does that make sense? Most of all they know they are loved. It's hard to keep a relationship together. It takes giving and patience. Sometimes things that seems like an issue today may blow over and not be such a big deal. Are your issues worth your kids growing up without mom and dad together?? Are your issues something that will not ever be resoved?? If you can't resolve these issues then don't stay together for the sake of the kids. Growing up in a home with fighting and no love is not good. Hope this helps
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You know, to be completely honest, if the father of your first child and one you're bearing, is not supportive or you have the little INCH of feeling that he's going to not be there for your kids, please, for the sake of your 2 children, dump the fucking shit now.
It's better for you because you won't have to deal with him and, you know what, it's better for your current child and soon to be. I don't think you would want your kids growing up with a "father" who shows up whenever he freaking wants to, and just leaves you with your children in the cold without a goodbye or without knowing when he'll come back.
I'm not sure if this is what happens when you're pregnant, but that doesn't matter. TRUST YOUR GUT FEELING, you konw about how a girl has intuition, you have to follow it.
Any slightest feeling he will leave you/won't be there, deal with it now.
You don't want that to run too late, and hurt you, or even POSSIBLY your children.
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