okay im 13/f and i meet this person through a friend...i like him a lot ut my friend said he doesnt like me like that ......i ahvent really talk to him about it........he thinks i will just make out wiht him them dump him.......i did that to one of his friends but i changed.....i dont kno how to get that through to him....i really like him and i want him to like me .....a lot of people like me and hott guys to but like i dont want any body but him......does any body have anygood ideas to where me adn him can meet up in like a group or somethign!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? pinkfairy1773 answered Sunday June 12 2005, 6:21 pm: ok this is going to be hard... changing your image i mean. be really good friend with him first. and talk to him. but never lying. and talk to him and get to know him. ask question and let him ask question to you too. and do only subtle flirting. NO big ones. and no sexual talking! and when you think he trust you enough...(that is when you done a good job befriending him)
tell him you are not really like that and you changed and he should trust you since you guys are such a good friend and all that!
XoxoLoverGurloxoX answered Friday June 10 2005, 4:09 pm: prove to him that you have changed & that you are not like that anymore. say like " I know i was that way then but i have changed alot ever since then" somthing like that. Make him get to knoe you better, so he can see the real you. & you ahve to get to know him better too. [ XoxoLoverGurloxoX's advice column | Ask XoxoLoverGurloxoX A Question ]
boycrazy804 answered Friday June 10 2005, 2:55 pm: you should probably show him a way that you changed so then maybe he'll believe you or write a note to one of your friends saying what you said in the question and leave it somewhere you Know he'll find it. [ boycrazy804's advice column | Ask boycrazy804 A Question ]
Lilqtpie4U232 answered Friday June 10 2005, 7:11 am: Hello,
Yes You can meet up with a group/bunch of people at the movies and it is a dark place where you both can talk and get thing's set stright and he wont be able to talk to loud because it is right during the movie :-)
It will work and contact me if you ever want to ask a question i'm always here for ya hunnie!!!!!!!!!!!
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iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Thursday June 9 2005, 11:29 pm: Stop trying to talk to him through your guys' friends. And just try being his friend, and let him get to know the real, new, you. Don't be desperate & pushy. Just be there for him as a friend & hang out with him. Hopefully things will start to happen. If his answer is firm and he doesn't like you like that, at least you have him as a friend, right?
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ideals answered Thursday June 9 2005, 11:10 pm: First thing, get to be friends and don't immediatly give the impression that you want to hook up or anything like that.
Hopefually, you have friend's who are friends with them, and just go see a movie together or go to the mall, anything that's just relaxing and you could just chill and hang out.
He'll get to know a little about you, and you'll get to know more about him. :)
GOODLUCK LOVELY!
Let me know how everything works out! :)
If you have any more questions or need follow up advice, please by all means feel free to ask me.
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